State police checks aren't a default requirement. Sometimes the CIC asks for them later - most of the time they don't. Long story short, it's enough to send the FBI cert.
The fact that you gave a reason why the parents were not there is good.cutiecorrie said:My husband's parents weren't on our wedding because they were both working abroad (his parents are separated). His relatives did not come as well despite the fact that we invited them. Would this set off a red flag? I did not include in the application the reason why his relatives didn't come and simply stated that his parents couldn't come because they were working abroad.
I'm guessing that I'd be called for an interview. I'm dreading this not for any other reason but for only one thing: I don't do well under pressure. I don't want to come across as nervous because I'm hiding anything, any advice?Baloo said:The fact that you gave a reason why the parents were not there is good.
When writing and describing things to CIC, try to answer any questions that may arise, if not then the VO may wonder what is happening or need to request an interview.
They have seen nervous before, it does not mean that your relationship is not genuine.cutiecorrie said:I'm guessing that I'd be called for an interview. I'm dreading this not for any other reason but for only one thing: I don't do well under pressure. I don't want to come across as nervous because I'm hiding anything, any advice?
Hi....mr70, it's just the same here. My bf and I both have previous marriages and I've been worried if it will become a problem, although I don't really think it will be but who knows? : We apply PR under common-law and I guess CIC officer might wonder that why we didn't get married and not showing them any future plan about marriage. What if they interviewed me, should I tell the truth that we never think about marriage because we don't really think it's necessary to us, well, at least, for this two, three years. Will it become an excuse to CIC to refuse my application? I really don't know. I'm waiting for anything from CIC...I'll be more than happy when you get some news from CIC and please share with me.....mr70 said:There a many potential red flags,in our case the biggest one is that both of us have previous marriages. Who knows maybe it will be seen as something more in common...LOL ! We sometimes find ourselves worrying about the other differences between us,but try to use that energy and focus on us being together. I know we can't be the only ones who have had previous marriages and going through this process. Maybe others can share their thoughts and experiences with CIC and how it is, or was viewed?