+1(514) 937-9445 or Toll-free (Canada & US) +1 (888) 947-9445

What sort of evidence is needed to prove a common-law relationship?

mathilde

Full Member
Jul 10, 2012
20
1
OhCanadiana said:
You're welcome. Depending on the job you look at, take a look at the list of professions in the NAFTA agreement.

Also, As you go further North, hotels tend to be more willing to go through the whole LMO process since they find it hard to fill their positions with Canadians so you may be able to get in as a skilled worker too.

You have lots of options.

Regarding your prior comments on financials, I hear you on intermingling your affairs. From CIC's perspective, they are looking for people who have intertwined their affairs and aren't just "testing out" living together before getting married. So, you may want to ask yourself how serious this relationship is at this point since it will come through in your application. If it isn't that serious yet, you can still move under another category as I mentioned above :)

Good luck!

OhC
Ahhh, interesting re: the LMO! I didn't think about that! I am heading up there at the end of the month, so maybe I can ask around. My boyfriend tells me there are 11 or 12 hotels in his town, so I might be in luck. If not, I'm sure I can find work somewhere. I have decent work experience in customer service! (And I study French and have been to Quebec for a semester.... That might help. :D)

We're serious in the sense that we are talking about our future. It isn't a matter of me thinking he will steal money or that I don't trust him. I have just always been told that you don't open a joint bank account until you are married. I think it is my Southern upbringing. :)

I like the idea that another poster pointed out -- only using the joint bank account for bills. (And perhaps we could have a savings account attached for more long-term savings.) It's one of those things I would be willing to compromise on for the sake of staying with him, of course. I trust him with his money, and he is very financially aware. (That's good because I'm a nut about finances. One of my vices, I suppose.) If I go on the WHV, I definitely plan on it being because I want to stay with him for the long-term, with the thought of marriage in mind.

But yes, I will look into the NAFTA as well. I just wasn't sure if I would qualify considering my degree and the fact that a front-desk receptionist might not be in-demand. (Though, one that speaks French might be... My boyfriend is always bragging about how he gets to use French at his job every couple of days....:p The lucky bugger. Hahah. He also works at a hotel at the moment, though it's not permanent.)

Thank you so much for your help. This forum is amazing! You're all great. :)
 

aerogurl87

Hero Member
Nov 14, 2010
444
15
Category........
Visa Office......
CPP-O
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
31-07-2012
Doc's Request.
12-02-13
AOR Received.
18-10-2012
Med's Done....
23-04-2012
Interview........
WAIVED!!!! :)
Passport Req..
12-02-2013
VISA ISSUED...
15-03-2013
LANDED..........
10-04-2013
We are applying as common law and this is what we are sending in:
3 letters from our parents saying they know about our relationship ( 2 are notarized)
Common law statutory declaration signed by us and a commissioner of oaths
Snapshots of skype phone calls from when we were long distance
MSN convos
Cell phone bills
Our lease agreement and receipts for rent that have both our names on it
Bills in both our names
Mail going to the same address in both our names and our post office box application with both our names on it
Facebook conversations and photos
Photos from major events in our lives with us together
Text message conversations, excerpts from my blog regarding our relationship
Emails to each other and to my family talking about us
Joint bank account history and application from when we first opened it
Birthday cards from his family to me
Paypal history of him sending me money
Travel itineraries, hotel receipts, and plane stubs from all flying we did together or to visit one another

That is all I can remember for now.
 

angel666

Full Member
Jul 24, 2012
36
1
Hi i know a refugee who was denied of his PR and is now awaiting for the result of his appeal. He was not given hope on his appeal, someone advice him to get married to a permanent resident here in canada. he is married from his home country and is divorcing his wife so he could marry a PR here in canada. His wife agreed for the divorce so now the divorce is on process. He wanted the divorce to be granted first so he can marry and have a PR. The marriage to the girl is just a marriage for convenience but the problem is he got the girl pregnant w/o the wife knowing it. They just agreed for the divorce so he could have PR but he screwed up and they him and the girl cheated her. the girl fell in love with him so she allowed him to impregnated her. will this be possible, will they will not be caught? they just met 5 mos ago and they are not living together. need reply to my question ASAP. thanks.
 

Sweden

VIP Member
Mar 31, 2012
4,186
179
Category........
Visa Office......
London
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
12/04/2012
File Transfer...
13/07/2012
Med's Done....
02/02/2012
Interview........
Waived
Passport Req..
Exempt
VISA ISSUED...
05/11/12, received in Canada 19/11/12
LANDED..........
24/11/12, PR card received 30/01/12
Hey Mathilde,

about applying outland versus inland - outland absolutely!! especially because you are from a visa exempt country, and your VO is a rather fast one anyway... inland first stage is 11 months, and you can not leave Canada as soon as you send your application (so if there is a family emergency, then you can not go or your application may be deemed abandoned... think about that...). Current first stage for outland is 3 months, and then for US citizen it takes around 7 months for now ( and lots of cases, less...) - so you might have your PR by the time you would have the inland done. You retain the right of appeal ( hopefully you won't need it, but still...) and you can travel back and forth while you are applying outland. You can still live in Canada, no problem, but it allows you to exit the country. You always "risk" not being allowed back in ( as a tourist) but from what I can see from the forum, the risks are pretty low ( especially if you travel once the first stage has been approved).

You can read more about outland versus inland in the first post from Leon on this forum, it will give you a good overview.
It seems like you are very "early" in the preparation process so there is plenty of time to think about it and read about your options...
Best of luck,
Sweden
 

missmymexi

Hero Member
Feb 27, 2012
578
12
Category........
Visa Office......
Mexico City
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
04-17-2012
Doc's Request.
11-26-12 - Common law declaration/PRG/SSP
AOR Received.
Ottawa - 09-11-12 / DF 11-26-12
File Transfer...
09-17-12
Med's Done....
02-29-12
angel666 said:
Hi i know a refugee who was denied of his PR and is now awaiting for the result of his appeal. He was not given hope on his appeal, someone advice him to get married to a permanent resident here in canada. he is married from his home country and is divorcing his wife so he could marry a PR here in canada. His wife agreed for the divorce so now the divorce is on process. He wanted the divorce to be granted first so he can marry and have a PR. The marriage to the girl is just a marriage for convenience but the problem is he got the girl pregnant w/o the wife knowing it. They just agreed for the divorce so he could have PR but he screwed up and they him and the girl cheated her. the girl fell in love with him so she allowed him to impregnated her. will this be possible, will they will not be caught? they just met 5 mos ago and they are not living together. need reply to my question ASAP. thanks.
To me this is simply Karma, his poor wife
 

angel666

Full Member
Jul 24, 2012
36
1
this refugee is really trying all avenues he can to stay here, he is telling everyone that they are actually bf and gf...they are both using each other for their own motives. the refugee to have a PR the girl to be with him and bear his child and hopes that all will become a reality. this girl is so desperate to have a husband bec she is old already and this is a chance of a lifetime for her. if she can stay with the refugee for 2 yrs she can have more kids and keep the refugee. the refugee enjoys it bec she has 2 girls the wife nad the idiot PR in Canada. yes i feel sorry for the poor wife following all what the husband tells her but little she knows she is cheated by the girl who pretends to be helpful and the selfish and ambitious refugee. i hope this refugee will be denied and deported bec he is a BIG FRAUD AND LIAR...pls reply.....immigration and refugee board do something about this fraudulent refugee.....
 

LeisaP

Champion Member
Jun 29, 2012
1,931
19
Category........
Visa Office......
Mexico City
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
January 18, 2012
Doc's Request.
ARC requested Sept 28,2012 ARC sent October 18,2012... RCMP Sent Dec 17,2012. Additional court documents sent March 25, 2013.
AOR Received.
Never
File Transfer...
April 5, 2012
Med's Request
First medical March 2011, REDO Medical July 30, 2012
Med's Done....
August 16, 2012
Interview........
Waived
Passport Req..
May 7, 2013
VISA ISSUED...
May 27, 2013
LANDED..........
May 30, 2013
angel666 said:
leisa are you in Canada? how to tell about this refugee at immigration board?
Im not sure how. but im sure if you called cic. the contact information on the website. they will tell you how you can report immigration fraud.
you should try contacting them and see what they say.
 

KJG

Champion Member
Jun 4, 2012
2,795
29
Ontario
Category........
Visa Office......
Havana
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
Feb 28, 2012
AOR Received.
June 14, 2012
File Transfer...
June 20, 2012
Med's Done....
Jan 3, 2012
Interview........
Oct 4, 2012 9:00am
VISA ISSUED...
Oct 4, 2012
LANDED..........
Nov 9, 2012
leisap is right......go to the cic website and find out where you report immigration fraud...that is all you can do.....
 

missmymexi

Hero Member
Feb 27, 2012
578
12
Category........
Visa Office......
Mexico City
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
04-17-2012
Doc's Request.
11-26-12 - Common law declaration/PRG/SSP
AOR Received.
Ottawa - 09-11-12 / DF 11-26-12
File Transfer...
09-17-12
Med's Done....
02-29-12
LeisaP said:
thats sick!.

its people like that. that hurt people with real relationships that are trying to be with their families.
this personally offends me!!
I agree, I was pretty angry when I read the first post, so frusturating for those of us trying to be with our loved ones when there is douches liek this guy around, grrrrr
 

LeisaP

Champion Member
Jun 29, 2012
1,931
19
Category........
Visa Office......
Mexico City
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
January 18, 2012
Doc's Request.
ARC requested Sept 28,2012 ARC sent October 18,2012... RCMP Sent Dec 17,2012. Additional court documents sent March 25, 2013.
AOR Received.
Never
File Transfer...
April 5, 2012
Med's Request
First medical March 2011, REDO Medical July 30, 2012
Med's Done....
August 16, 2012
Interview........
Waived
Passport Req..
May 7, 2013
VISA ISSUED...
May 27, 2013
LANDED..........
May 30, 2013
missmymexi said:
I agree, I was pretty angry when I read the first post, so frusturating for those of us trying to be with our loved ones when there is douches liek this guy around, grrrrr
yup!!. its really frustrating!. i was angry too!.
we are suffering the wait and extensive checks and all that because of idiots like that.

well hopefully justice will be served and this guy doesnt get away with anything :)
 

perkele

Star Member
Jul 4, 2012
161
4
Montréal
Category........
Visa Office......
Vegreville
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
February 15, 2012
AOR Received.
May 30, 2012
Med's Done....
December 12, 2011
LeisaP said:
yup!!. its really frustrating!. i was angry too!.
we are suffering the wait and extensive checks and all that because of idiots like that.

well hopefully justice will be served and this guy doesnt get away with anything :)
I agree with everyone.
I was furious when I saw the post the first time, to the point that I actually reported you to the moderator shortly after reading it.
I'm still a little angry because it's that kind of people that make this whole process harder for those that are actually in genuine relationships.
 

KJG

Champion Member
Jun 4, 2012
2,795
29
Ontario
Category........
Visa Office......
Havana
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
Feb 28, 2012
AOR Received.
June 14, 2012
File Transfer...
June 20, 2012
Med's Done....
Jan 3, 2012
Interview........
Oct 4, 2012 9:00am
VISA ISSUED...
Oct 4, 2012
LANDED..........
Nov 9, 2012
unfortunately like many things in life....the few that are rotten make it hard on the majority that is good.... :(
 

angel666

Full Member
Jul 24, 2012
36
1
missmymexi LeisaP perkele KJG thank you for all your comments...I am really hoping the immigration will look seriously into this matter...i hope this ambitious refugee will pay for all of what wrong he is doing...