Just lost my father and couldn't even go see him for one last time and hug him, is it really worth the wait? 14 months passed, and still don't see an approval on my application. My mom is not doing well and so is my brother, they need me but they also said not to take any major step without at least getting the ECOPR. My TRV expiring in 2 days, work permit expiring in 2 days (applied for extension over 45 days ago). I feel helpless, this is not done!