Hi everyone. My girlfriend from Nicaragua and I would like her to come visit my family and I in Canada.
Here are some details about her:
We've been together for almost 3 years. We met in Nicaragua; I was volunteering there and taking Spanish lessons, and she was my teacher.
So, I figure right away that we should not say that we are in a relationship, right? For that reason, we're planning on having my mom write the letter of invitation. My parents will be the ones officially inviting her. I think the general story is that my mom, recently retired, would now like to travel and learn Spanish. Having heard about my great Spanish teacher, because my girlfriend taught both me and some friends who live in the same city as me, my mom will be inviting my girlfriend to help her learn English and so my mom can learn Spanish. My mom and my girlfriend have been exchanging correspondence via Facebook for a while.
What we have ready:
What I still need to prepare:
And so, I'd like some help and advice about how to best proceed. Does it make sense for my mother to invite her, and if so, what should the letter say? Do you think it will be obvious that I'm actually in a relationship with my girlfriend and therefore we shouldn't hide that? Is it a problem that my mom is retired? My father is the primary breadwinner and my job is okay. I live with them. If my mother is not a good choice for the letter of invitation, who would be better?
My girlfriend and I are Facebook friends, 'in a relationship'... should we be removing that sort of thing?
Thank you kindly for taking the time to read all this, and thank you even more for any help in advance. I appreciate it.
Here are some details about her:
- She is 32
- Has never traveled outside of Nicaragua before; we got her first passport last year
- She has never applied before (probably obvious but whatever)
- She works as a highschool teacher in the best public school in her city; she's worked there for 3 years
- She previously worked as a teacher in two other schools, with a solid work history for the past decade
- However, Nicaragua is extremely poor, and she makes very little money
- No kids; never married; no health issues
- She has no family in Canada
- She does not speak English (only a few phrases)
- She lives in an apartment that I basically pay for, sending her cash via Western Union when necessary
We've been together for almost 3 years. We met in Nicaragua; I was volunteering there and taking Spanish lessons, and she was my teacher.
So, I figure right away that we should not say that we are in a relationship, right? For that reason, we're planning on having my mom write the letter of invitation. My parents will be the ones officially inviting her. I think the general story is that my mom, recently retired, would now like to travel and learn Spanish. Having heard about my great Spanish teacher, because my girlfriend taught both me and some friends who live in the same city as me, my mom will be inviting my girlfriend to help her learn English and so my mom can learn Spanish. My mom and my girlfriend have been exchanging correspondence via Facebook for a while.
What we have ready:
- The two Passport photos
- Passport
- Girlfriend's bank statements from past 3 months
- Letter from the administration of her school, indicating her employment, her salary, information like that
- The schedule of classes for the year to indicate that there are no classes during the planned visit (3 weeks in December), so she's cool in terms of work schedule
What I still need to prepare:
- The letter of invitation
- Evidence of income (host)
- Proof of employment (host)
- Proof of existing funds to support your visit (host)
And so, I'd like some help and advice about how to best proceed. Does it make sense for my mother to invite her, and if so, what should the letter say? Do you think it will be obvious that I'm actually in a relationship with my girlfriend and therefore we shouldn't hide that? Is it a problem that my mom is retired? My father is the primary breadwinner and my job is okay. I live with them. If my mother is not a good choice for the letter of invitation, who would be better?
My girlfriend and I are Facebook friends, 'in a relationship'... should we be removing that sort of thing?
Thank you kindly for taking the time to read all this, and thank you even more for any help in advance. I appreciate it.