ihabkal said:
you need to know that embassies in third world countries treat citizens of these countries like animals, and that if a guy or gal are smart enough to land a job in Canada or the US and apply from there then good for them.
I'm aware it's like that, very much so actually so it's not something that I don't know, but rules are rules and that's how it goes no matter what the situation... and yeah, if they are able to that's great.. I do know how bad it can be, so if they can make it better for themselves, go for it, I hope it goes smoothly because no one should be denied their spouse.
It still doesn't take from what I said though. There are those who feel that way, my opinion isn't being brought into it because it's not important and I'm not opening a debate when no matter what anyone says, the point is as is below.
The point of what I posted was if they are not a citizen, or resident of a country, they HAVE to file with their home country even if it is a bad situation to apply in. How they are treated vs. how Americans/Canadians are treated isn't the issue with the rules so that makes no difference.