Hi Everyone, I hope there is someone on here that has a similar situation and can help us out
My American husband and I were married in Sept 2014 and in November he resigned from his position at work and planned to live off of his savings, so he could be with me more in Canada to help raise our children who both have special needs. (I was not coping well and it was hard for him to hear it in my voice through the week). My husband also has a son from another marriage who lives in the US, lives with his mom and stays with his dad every other weekend usually. Prior to our PR app I called CIC and looked on this forum to find out if he would indeed be allowed to travel back and forth like this every couple of weeks. I was told that was fine and that as a visa exempt US citizen he had 6 months in Canada. We submitted our paper work for PR Dec 23rd 2014 and it was received but it hasn't been opened yet according to my recent inquiry using my receipt number.
Anyway...he has been travelling back and forth since December and has had no issues, sometimes with me and sometimes by himself. But yesterday an agent seemed to misunderstand what he was saying and sent him in to the building for stage 2 check in. The agent there said everything was fine and that he believed my husband. He understood the circumstance but said he would now have trouble crossing and he would need to ask for a "visitor record" the next time he enters Canada. The agent asked my husband if he spends more time in Canada or the US and if he spends more than 3 or 4 days with me at a time. My husband honestly replied that on average he spends more days of the month in Canada than the US. The agent told him that he is not allowed to do that...that he has to spend more time in the states than Canada!
Its as if there are a number of different rule books handed out to the border employees...
Everyone else we have spoke with in crossing has been very understanding and pleasant. I don't understand.
Now my husband is worried they won't let him in Canada again and is wondering if he should take his job back and stay in the states until pr is granted!! Is this necessary? Is there a chance we could screw up our chances at him obtaining PR?
I am sorry if this has been answered somewhere but I have been looking and can't find an example of someone who travels back and forth a couple times a month like my husband does. :'( Any help you can offer would help settle his worry and make an informed decision, thank-you!