MsJoanne said:
I don't know your situation and am confused because, first, I don't know what a CL is, and I don't think you can work in Canada without a work visa. I think I'm missing information.
My suggestion, instead of looking at a lease, which they don't seem to want to do, YOU write letters stating something like the following
Hope that helps!
CL is Common Law Spouse.
Well they did write me a letter and provided number for CIC to call if they want further information or had questions, and I have the original paper stating that I'm an occupant from September with my signature, my CL's, and the landlords to send with it. I can't get it notarized though since even the original lease isn't notarized.
awor said:
Kiri, just showing you are an occupant is ok. You don't have to be on the lease, just be living together. Coupled with all the other proof, it won't be an issue.
THANK YOU... OH man... I've been so panicked. So this other proof should be enough to go with it?
We have..
Hard Evidence:
Shared bank account
Shared hydro account
He has a life insurance policy application pending approval and will be naming me as beneficiary (I won't be able to get one until I go back to the states and I'm not before we mail.. sooo only one)
Occupant letter from landlord for apartment since September, and from May-September a letter from his parents (stamped by postal service as a notarization) stating we resided with them during that time.
Soft Evidence:
Letters: A couple notarized letters and several letters from family and friends.
Total so far: 13 -- hoping to get more as some have said they will but we've not followed up yet from his family, and some people we want to still ask this weekend which are family friends and more of his family. -- only 3 of these are from my family (my grandma, dad and sister-in-law... I can't seem to get help otherwise.. sad, eh? -- then we have 7 from friends, and 4 from his family so far (mom, aunt, uncle) -- the ones with notarizing is my grandma, my dad, a friend of ours, and his mom has gotten a postal stamp like notarization.
98 Photos (though I did want to ask should we just provide the photos we are in together, or photos that we took of each other in places/events and also the photos we took of event/places without us in them) -- more to come (we're going to his parents this weekend for her birthday and I'm gonna get photos with me with the family since I don't have any)
Phone logs for voice, getting for text we hope... my Verizon bill is not showing up any texting beyond 3 months ago and we have about 1300 between us over the past year according to my phone (I don't delete)
Skype receipts for the past year to show I've purchased it to use for communicating if we could not via phone (I used this before I got a Canada/US calling plan)
28 Email confirmation and/or Receipts for purchases through Steam(game service), Shirt.Woot(clothing), Discovery Store(BluRays for his birthday), Torrid (many clothing receipts where he got me clothes while here), Blizzard(gaming stuff), Amazon -- maybe TMI, but specifics might be important?
Bank statement printouts for proof of purchases of Grocery stores or Walmart, etc from my account and his (for shared household expenses during my time here)
Bank statement printouts for proof of purchases from 3 jewelry stores by him (we can't find receipts), other proofs of purchases from both accounts.
Receipts from his mom from the veterinarian where she paid to have my cat fixed, and also a receipt where she paid around $2000 worth of dental work for me.
Bank statements from his mom to prove purchases of travel insurance for me, plane ticket purchases, gifts, etc.
1 concert ticket where we went to see Within Temptation in September with my friends from Canada that I've known longer than him.
Bank Statement to show purchase of Segwun Steamboat tickets for 2 dates.
Bank Statements to show purchases of movie tickets (2 adults.. or 3 if we brought his brother), etc.
Facebook printout of wall and album with comments from friends/family.
Letter from both of us stating how our relationship has been, what we're looking toward the future, etc. Couple pages each.
Printed time-line roughly outlining our relationship month by month.
Email from grandma where she says things about our relationship to me personally, about how happy she is, etc.
Wire transfer email confirmation of $800something money transfer from my bank account to my CL's.
10 Emails between us ... we actually don't have many at all since we've been face to face and only occasionally did we email a special letter, or when we might have had a disagreement and wanted to best communicate our feelings did we write an email so it's not really things I'm comfortable sharing. What I've done with the few letters I have.. I took the ones that had lovey dovey things and put them in word pad and blacked out the personal contents of the email and left that stuff showing --- will this look bad? Any advice? this is all we have because we mostly texted or spoke online through voice chat on Ventrilo and/or games(how we met)
Reciepts for purchase of $40 for FBI fingerprints, mailing express for them.
... hope I'm not forgetting anything, haha.
Would anyone suggest anything else? Is this enough? ...any other input? Hahah... wow I said a lot.