I did... but they can't get me anything. It really is frustrating me.
Ahh gotcha on photos. Just counted, we have of 34 us together (mind you, some of those are from the same event). Yeah, I'll be writing on the back of them. Yeah, I saved my PDFs from my emailed bank statements.. just have to print them and highlight the entries that are relevant.
We now have...
Hard Evidence:
Shared bank account in Canada
Shared hydro account
Occupant letter from landlord for apartment since September, and from May-September a letter from his parents (stamped by postal service as a notarization) stating we resided with them during that time.
(waiting on confirmation letter)
Term Life Insurance his policy with me as beneficiary.
Soft Evidence:
Letters: A couple notarized letters and several letters from family and friends.
Total so far: 10 -- only 3 of these are from my family (my grandma, dad, and sister-in-law) -- then we have 5 from friends, and 2 from his family so far (mom, uncle) -- the ones with notarizing is my grandma, my dad, a friend of ours, and his mom has gotten a postal stamp like notarization. -- we have 2 coming from friends, 2 coming from friends of the family that know us, and 3 from his family.. so that'll end us with a
total of 17.
64 Photos - 34 of us together.. others are what we took of each other during those events, or with each other's pets or with each others family or friends or with a picture of us with gifts we got for each other.
Phone logs for voice from May 2011 to present, Text from November 2011 to present.
Skype receipts for the past year to show I've purchased it to use for communicating if we could not via phone (I used this before I got a Canada/US calling plan)
30 Email confirmation and/or Receipts for purchases through Steam(game service), Shirt.Woot(clothing), Discovery Store(BluRays for his birthday), Torrid (many clothing receipts where he got me clothes while here), Blizzard(gaming stuff), Amazon -- maybe TMI, but specifics might be important?
Bank statement printouts for proof of purchases of Grocery stores or Walmart, etc from my account and his (for shared household expenses during my time here)
Bank statement printouts for proof of purchases from 3 jewelry stores by him (we can't find receipts except for one necklace for Christmas we have the hard receipt for), other proofs of purchases from both accounts.
Receipts from his mom from the veterinarian where she paid to have my cat fixed, and also a receipt where she paid around $2000 worth of dental work for me.
Bank statements from his mom to prove purchases of travel insurance for me, plane ticket purchases, gifts, etc.
1 concert ticket where we went to see Within Temptation in September with my friends from Canada that I've known longer than him.
Bank Statement to show purchase of Segwun Steamboat tickets for 2 dates.
Bank Statements to show purchases of movie tickets (2 adults.. or 3 if we brought his brother), etc.
Facebook printout of wall and album with comments from friends/family.
(To be done)
Letter from both of us stating how our relationship has been, what we're looking toward the future, etc. Couple pages each.
Printed time-line roughly outlining our relationship month by month.
Email from grandma where she says things about our relationship to me personally, about how happy she is, etc.
Wire transfer email confirmation of $800something money transfer from my bank account to my CL's.
10 Emails between us ... most of it's blacked out because I don't want to expose personal stuff... so that's why there are only 10 salvageable that could be shared.
Reciepts for purchase both of our subscription for the past year to World of Warcraft, the game where we met and play together.
... hope I'm not forgetting anything, haha. Any extra suggestions as I finalize this bad boy?