I'm doing this right now so I'll try and answer your questions as best I can.mcmasters said:I have some questions for anyone who went to live with their Canadian spouse to wait out your PR application.
1. Did you maintain an active address in the States while you waited for your resident status to come through?
If not...
>What did you do about a driver's license? Did you keep your U.S. DL? What did you list as the address on your DL?
>If you have a car, what did you list as your state of residence for insurance purposes? For car registration purposes?
I'm sort of worried about this because every time I cross the border the IO's on both sides ask me where I live (city). Once or twice they asked my address.
2. Did you keep your job in the U.S.?
>If yes, did you work remotely or commute back and forth?
>If not, how did you explain that you were unemployed to the IOs if/when you crossed the border between U.S. and Canada during your extended visit?
Now when I cross the IO's always ask where I work and what my job is. So if I say I'm unemployed, I figure that's going to raise a red flag for them.
1) My DL and passport still show my parents' address in the U.S. (I hadn't gotten around to changing them after grad school anyway). As far as my insurance is concerned I currently live at my permanent address. (side note, same goes for my health insurance)
As for where you live, I often say the city listed on my passport as where I'm from, but that I'm going to stay with my husband while I wait for my PR. I had a bit of an issue at first, before my paperwork was properly in the system. By trouble I mean they made me stop and get a visitor pass in my passport so they could keep better track of me. To be quite honest though, my husband once responded to the border guard with simply the town in which we live in QC, and even though he was sitting there staring at my American passport he didn't ask a single question. Just handed our stuff back and told us to have a nice day. Great border security right there. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and he saw on his system that I had a PR app in process. Hehe.
I also once had an overzealous border guard go on about how I was supposed to reregister my car in Quebec if I had the intention of living there full time. I explained that I would be very happy to reregister my car in QC once I had my PR and could import it without duties. He got over his ego trip after a few minutes and let me go on my way once I promised multiple times to properly declare my car as soon as I had my PR.
2) I did not keep my job in the U.S. If I could have telecommuted I would have, but it wasn't an option for me. My husband is the sole breadwinner and that's what we tell them at the border. It's what we told them when I moved before we were even married. The one time they asked to see my bank statements to prove that I had money my husband got mad at them, because he pays for essentially everything and he didn't understand why I still had to show proof of other money. Again, it only took a few minutes and it was sorted without incident. I would recommend getting a bank account with your husband and always making sure there's a decent level of funds in it when you cross the border just in case you get asked about it.
Otherwise, we've never had any real problems and we've been doing this for over a year now (knock wood). I moved up about 6 months before our marriage, and really had the most issues come up before we were married and the PR app submitted. If your app is already in the system then I personally doubt they'll give you trouble (the customs and immigration officers can see it in their system, though it's not detailed. I once tried to get details out of a friendly guard and he was like, "I really would love to tell you, but all I can see is that it's in process").
One note, I haven't bothered to move much stuff up here yet other than car, clothes and jewelry so I don't know what the reaction at the border would be if you showed up with a Uhaul truck but no PR. Might want to put your stuff in storage until you've officially landed.