avon said:
So I will probably move to be with my family to Toronto.
I would advise against using that terminology. You are going to visit your family in Toronto... that's what the border guards want to hear.
1) Do people just forward their mail to Canada, or do you inform CIC that you are moving?
I would suggest forwarding your mail to a family member/friend in the US, or find a PO Box just across the border from where you'll be visiting to rent and have mail forwarded there.
I wouldn't recommend trying to forward mail to Canada, for a couple reasons: 1. I don't think USPS will do it (international mail prices being higher) and 2. it'll take for-freaking-ever to get through the system thanks to our *wonderful* CanadaPost.
2) Getting my car across? Exactly what paperwork do I need to do before going across the border with it. Do I need the title or will a copy of it suffice as my wife has the title with her? Anything else from the DMV here in California.
Well, since you're not "moving" (if you are, you'll likely be denied entry as you don't yet have PR) to Canada, and you're just visiting, I suspect registration and proof of insurance is sufficient. You'll have to take the car back to the US when you land and do the export/import procedure then.
3) Anybody done the drive from Vancouver to Toronto? Or should I drive across the US? Any good or particularly bad border entry spots, and any good advice to tell the border guards.
I have done the drive from Calgary through Brandon, MB on the Trans Canada (Highway 1), just last month. I have also driven I-90 from Davenport IA through to Seattle, also last month. From that experience, I can say that you're more likely to have an enjoyable drive by staying in the US. Not to mention cheaper. Our gas prices here, after conversion to gallons and the exchange rate equate about $5.00 per US gallon. The most expensive I saw in the US was right around $4.00 per gallon.
Furthermore, if you drive from California to Toronto, you can make a diagonal route, rather than an "L"-shaped route, saving time, distance and fuel.
If you go to google maps and get directions from Vancouver to Toronto, you'll find that it routes you through Michigan -- if you stay north of the Great Lakes, you can add another 10-12 hours of driving to your trip, as a minimum.
Also, consider that the Highway 1 (Trans Canada) has a max speed limit of 68 mph (110 km/h), whereas much of the Interstate system had speed limits in excess of 70 mph.