Im not a mean person but should he fail would you move to africa? For me this was a nightmare , i could not get used to the idea of living in nairobi :-[bobshynoswife said:
truthfully, i would have to wait 12 years until my children grew up before i could move there. at that point i would be 44, and probably too old to have children. what kind of life would that be for him? to wait 12 years for his wife to come, and then give up any chance of having children? and could we sustain our relationship over the next 12 years apart? i truly don't know. all i can answer is that yes, right now if it was the only way we could be together i would move to nigeria to be with him. thankfully, it's not going to come to that. if for some reason he was denied now, we would certainly win an appeal. he could also immigrate other ways. i guess our point is that we are married for life, love each other dearly, and will do what it takes to be together. god forbid it comes down to our last option.teddybear said:
LOTS of prayers and good thoughts going your way!
