filipina_love_canadian said:
Hello sourblush... I am really sorry to hear what you and you're husband are going through right now... I do understand how it would feel though. But please don't ever be rush with your decision in parting....and cancelling your application. Maybe both of you will regret it one day and gonna have a hard time to file your app again... Please don't think bad at me when I say this.... Take time to think first before you finally decides... I strongly believe that you and your husband can fix those issues whatever they are... Good luck and God bless to you and family..
Hi Sourblush. I wanted to reply to you because my husband and I were in the same situation about 4-5 weeks ago. I thought it was the end too, and he did as well. We did not speak to each other for 3 weeks - no communication. This was very difficult. I did not plan on reconciling, and neither did he. He told me afterwards that he had infact prepared a box of things I gave him (as gifts) to send back to me! One day, a couple weeks ago we started talking on Skype (just typing) and were able to talk about things and get everything out (three hour long conversation). I was in the same situation as you, and was thinking about how I would cancel my application, what would happen with my future, etc. I wanted to wait though, incase something changed, so I would not regret my decision, as filing a new application would be really difficult. The funny thing is, the day after we had our long talk for the first time after three weeks, he got an email from the visa office asking him for his passport to be sent in order to get the visa...This was a miracle for us, and we knew that we were not going to give up at the very end, after everything we had been through in the time apart, and with this application. We have been together for over 5 years. My only advice would be to wait a few weeks and maybe give it some time, as both yours and his feelings may change, as the did for myself and my husband! Best of luck to you on your path.