Hello zbaby - thank you very much for your kind words, just doing what I can to help out and I am sure there are many members here who can help with any sort of questions and we are all in the same boat so just hang in their for a bit longer and you never know.
You can find CIC contact information in the following url
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/contacts/index.asp - generally if you are in Canada you can call 1-888-242‑2100 Mon - Fri 8 am to 4 p.m , however there is long wait before you actually speak to a live agent and you have to choose your options carefully on the phone.
I see you as per today you are about 78 Days into your processing time for your SA, and I strongly believe that you will be hearing from them before the end of the month or first week of April. Did you get an acknowledgment from them that they received your application ?
For TRV in Abu Dhabi, I would suggest have all your documentation prepared, fees - travel plans, show them your ties in UAE ( like job, NOC, full time studies, family members, if you were born there in UAE ) your ties need to be strong and yes a letter of support from your sponsor and a cover letter of sort from your side explaining and dont be shy on being emotional how you miss your spouse and you only want to see him for a short time.
Hope this helps - do keep us posted.