I'll say my words and leave this lady alone.
Alam niyo, sa totoo lang imbes na mainis eh naaawa ako sakanya.
Just imagine hindi pa sila nagkakasama ng asawa niya ay "nanloloko" na pala saknya.
Anything na pakikipag-usap sa iba na may halong malice, is already considered unfaithfulness. So, I don't know kung namisinterpret lang ba niya yung nakita niya sa account ng husband niya, but anyway, I'm really sorry that has happened to both of you.
Other than that, I can only wish you and your husband the best