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Why don't you ask your spouse before you start communicating with CIC?lacrosse said:Hi All: I am in deep trouble. I found out through a friend in my home country that my spouse may not stay with me where I am working (Winnipeg) after coming to Canada. Because she is planning to live close to her sister in Toronto. So I have to leave my job, which I don't want to. But she always is hiding this intention to me. It is me who will be responsible for her living in Canada for 36 months, not her sister. The application already in the VISA office waiting for initial review. Now I am scared what to do. How to defend myself. One of my friends told me to withdraw the application and re-apply under the new law which was effective on October 25/26 in 2012. But if I want to withdraw the application, the VISA office will ask me - why ? and if I re-apply under the new law of living together for 2 years, I could at least get some time to understand and confirm her hidden intention. Now how can I avoid this complication of withdrawing the application and at the same time want to take the advantage of the new law of compulsory living together ? Please help me. I am thinking so many options.....but with little answers...
If there is this level of deceit in your relationship, then it is in serious trouble. But you also need to be aware that sometimes "friends" tell you things they want you to hear - not because they are true, but because they influence you to do what the friend thinks is in your best interests.
If you wish to withdraw the application you can certainly do so, but I'd only do that if your relationship has ended or is ending. Otherwise, I'd suggest you focus on fixing your relationship rather than trying to use CIC policy to bludgeon your spouse into living together with you.