Spousal sponsorship

[sivathegreat]

Hi, I need your advice on following issues:
My husband is a Cadian citizen. We got married 3 years ago. I Immigrated to canada 1 months ago, on Sposual sponsorship. Since i have come here he has started abusing me. He also threats me that if i tell anyone, he will get me deported. In our Indian culture, parent expect girls to stay with the husbands after marriage regardless. So they are not ready to listen me.

My questions are
1. Can he get me deported, if i seperate/ divorce from him now or tell police about it. Is there a minimum time i have to stay with him before i can seek seperation/ divorce.
2. Is there any organisation where i can get help/ counselling to know why he is behaving like this and if possible to save my marriage.
3. can i work if i seperate from him. I have a SIN number.
4. Where can i get legal help in case my issue goes to court. i do not have any money. Whatever i had, my husband has taken away from me.
5. Any other suggestions on my options.

i can not go back as divorced girl are considered curse and even my family is not ready to accept me back.

My email is h2s @ usa.com

Disclaimer: I am not an authority on the subject. These are just my views based on experience

1. Can he get me deported, if i seperate/ divorce from him now or tell police about it. Is there a minimum time i have to stay with him before i can seek seperation/ divorce.
ANS: Unless you violate Canadian Law you cannot be deported. No minimu time for you. But he has signed 3 years declaration to support you inspite of your relation.

2. Is there any organisation where i can get help/ counselling to know why he is behaving like this and if possible to save my marriage.
ANs: Depending on your province there are many non profit organizations providing free counseling

3. 3. can i work if i seperate from him. I have a SIN number.
ANS: Yes you can

4. Where can i get legal help in case my issue goes to court. i do not have any money. Whatever i had, my husband has taken away from me.
ANS: Again depending on province there are legal aid available. check your local courts

5. Any other suggestions on my options.
ANS: Without know the problem there is not much to offer. What ever you do consult those who are your genuine well wishers and are mature and knowledgeable (all well wishers are not wise)

i can not go back as divorced girl are considered curse and even my family is not ready to accept me back.
ANS: I gave my sister in marriage to my distant relative in Australia. She had problems with him. He cut the phone, changed the house it was terribble.Finally I had to smuggle my sister out of Australia.I am from India too. Things are changing. In India people worry too much what other people think.I dont care for those people because they are not my genuine well wishers or do not understand me properly.If they think let them think. I dont want to be in soupIwant to get out of this mess.

Lastly, this life is no big deal (my opinion)we fret and fume, jump and cry but this life has no valueNo big deal if we lose something, If you are a Hindu remember B-Gita (I am an athiest)

Why do you worry without cause? Whom do you fear without reason? Who can kill you? The soul is neither born, nor does it die.
Whatever happened, happened for the good; whatever is happening, is happening for the good; whatever will happen, will also happen for the good only. You need not have any regrets for the past. You need not worry for the future. The present is happening...
What did you lose that you cry about? What did you bring with you, which you think you have lost? What did you produce, which you think got destroyed? You did not bring anything - whatever you have, you received from here. Whatever you have given, you have given only here. Whatever you took, you took from God. Whatever you gave, you gave to him. You came empty handed, you will leave empty handed. What is yours today, belonged to someone else yesterday, and will belong to someone else the day after tomorrow. You are mistakenly enjoying the thought that this is yours. It is this false happiness that is the cause of your sorrows.

 

[abdoualye]

salut leo
je veux échanger avec toi si tu peux m'aider a trouver un sponseur

 

[Serendipity]

Hi, I need your advice on following issues:
My husband is a Cadian citizen. We got married 3 years ago. I Immigrated to canada 1 months ago, on Sposual sponsorship. Since i have come here he has started abusing me. He also threats me that if i tell anyone, he will get me deported. In our Indian culture, parent expect girls to stay with the husbands after marriage regardless. So they are not ready to listen me.

My questions are
1. Can he get me deported, if i seperate/ divorce from him now or tell police about it. Is there a minimum time i have to stay with him before i can seek seperation/ divorce.
2. Is there any organisation where i can get help/ counselling to know why he is behaving like this and if possible to save my marriage.
3. can i work if i seperate from him. I have a SIN number.
4. Where can i get legal help in case my issue goes to court. i do not have any money. Whatever i had, my husband has taken away from me.
5. Any other suggestions on my options.

i can not go back as divorced girl are considered curse and even my family is not ready to accept me back.

My email is h2s @ usa.com

If you believe yourself to be in danger or in need of help because of an abusive partner - whether he is your sponsor or not -, call 911 right away, DO NOT WAIT!. If the danger is not imminent, contact a shelter for women in your area and ask for help. Use the following link to find the closest one to you: http://www.shelternet.ca/en/women/find-a-shelter/clickable-map/

S.

 

[Connie77]

this is great...can you maybe put in a link where to get the applications? Thank you!!!

 

[sivathegreat]

this is great...can you maybe put in a link where to get the applications? Thank you!!!

to whom and what this question is for?

 

[IndianOcean]

Hi guys, a quick question here.

I received an email from the VO asking to pay the Right of Permanent Residence Fee, is that 550$? "A family member of the principal applicant who is 22 years of age or older, or is less than 22 years of age and is a spouse or common-law partner " is that right? in the box right next to it, paying online, I put the number 1 right?

when I originally sent my application, we made the payment with the requested form in the bank,and sent a copy of the receipt,so this remaining fee can we pay online instead(much easier)?no problem?

thanks!

 

[sivathegreat]

Hi guys, a quick question here.

I received an email from the VO asking to pay the Right of Permanent Residence Fee, is that 550$? "A family member of the principal applicant who is 22 years of age or older, or is less than 22 years of age and is a spouse or common-law partner " is that right? in the box right next to it, paying online, I put the number 1 right?

when I originally sent my application, we made the payment with the requested form in the bank,and sent a copy of the receipt,so this remaining fee can we pay online instead(much easier)?no problem?

thanks!

Yes, once you pay online you will receive an online receipt maybe with R number
you keep it with you, You can save it as PDF or print it as PDF using PDF 995 software download online for free (before paying)
google it.

Then send the receipt to the VO enclose the letter.

Can you please tell your time line?

 

[IndianOcean]

Yes, once you pay online you will receive an online receipt maybe with R number
you keep it with you, You can save it as PDF or print it as PDF using PDF 995 software download online for free (before paying)
google it.

Then send the receipt to the VO enclose the letter.

Can you please tell your time line?

Sorry, Right of Permanent Residence Fee is 490$. Just read it right this time.

Application Received on CPC-M - 12 August 2011
Application Approved on 8 October 2011
Pretoria (my VO) started processing our application on 26 October 2011

Today got a letter saying interview waived and application approved. They need now CSQ (since i'm applying through Quebec) and the remaining fee, Right of Permanet Residence Fee.

 

[IndianOcean]

Yes, once you pay online you will receive an online receipt maybe with R number
you keep it with you, You can save it as PDF or print it as PDF using PDF 995 software download online for free (before paying)
google it.

Then send the receipt to the VO enclose the letter.

Can you please tell your time line?

I tought I was supposed to sent the online receipt to CPC-M. Am I wrong?

 

[sivathegreat]

Sorry about that.
Yes RPRF is $490 and only PR App is $550

Please check who has asked the fee,
and read that letter, instructions should be there

Usually RPRF is asked by VO only after PR is approved.
I dont know in your case

and you say in your case the interview is waived
In my opinion after sponsorship approval CPC-M has nothing to do with
only the VO, this is my opinion only

But yours is Quebec, CSQ maybe different

But now Pretoria is dealing your case right? Why CPC-M?
thier job is over

Thanks for the time line

 

[rjessome]

I tought I was supposed to sent the online receipt to CPC-M. Am I wrong?

No, you are correct. CPC-M will communicate with the overseas visa office that the fee is paid.

 

[Mlle_81]

Last update: November 23, 2011

66 days (working on applications received on September 16, 2011)

Yeah!!

 

[sivathegreat]

No, you are correct. CPC-M will communicate with the overseas visa office that the fee is paid.

That is something which I learnt.
Indian ocean, can please cross check with the instructions in your letter?

 

[IndianOcean]

That is something which I learnt.
Indian ocean, can please cross check with the instructions in your letter?

Well everyday we learn something new in this forum.
The letter doesn't give specific instructions about that,just a link for more information. http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/information/applications/guides/3900E8.asp

thanks!

 

[IndianOcean]

No, you are correct. CPC-M will communicate with the overseas visa office that the fee is paid.

So I send a copy of the receipt to CPC-M, I suppose I will have to write a cover letter with that,file number,id number etc. ?! Is that correct? And it should be sent to the normal address of Mississauga right? One more thing, will I have to wait 66 days for them to contact my VO about the payment ?

thanks