Take your time and give the dates when you have found them.
I'm sorry for your loss. Each one of us is going or have gone through the long distance relationship and we understand how stressful it can be. Plz don't cry, see you are almost at the finish line. The average processing time is around 7-8 months if the case is straight forward and the visa officer doesn't request anymore docs from your side. You are already at the 7 month mark. So IA its just a matter of weeks when you will hear something. Very soon your husband will join you, IA. Stay positive and keep yourself busy in your studies.