Hello Sjgolfer,
My interview done today afternoon. I went to high commission of Canada at 12:30pm in afternoon in Dhaka. I went with my father. I and my father went in the Canada high commission at 1pm. When I went they gave me a form to fill up. In the form they said about my file number, my inlaw name if I live there and their telephone number, my work place and if I not live in my inlaws then where I live and my parents name ,my sister name and their telephone no.I fill all the part except my work place.The vise officer is a Chinese lady around 40age and they have an interpreter. They ask who is this person and I said this is my father. They told me fill the form and stay here. But they call my father and 15mins they ask my father several questions,
They ask my father about my previous marriage, they ask my father about my husband previous marriage, they ask my father that he did my marriage with my husband for Canada purpose.why I get divoce and what are the reason the divorce. What my father call to my husband, what is my husband name, how many sister I had and where they live now.Do my father want to go Canada. My father give all the answer.
Then they call me for interview. my interview was 1hour 15 min. the lady ask me what I do, the lady said why I still a house tutor after my marriage, she said why I not live with my in laws? How I first conduct with my husband before my marriage , why I made conduct with my husband first, she was very surprise in our culture why I made a contact with him first why not my husband. Why my marriage dissolved, why I gave him lately divorce, why did not children in my present marriage, what I do when I went to Canada, what my husband work, what my husband do in holiday, why he not go to toranto why only whitby for shopping purpose, then the lady ask what I know about whitby town and name of the shopping mall, she ask me why my husband not go to USA because my sister live in Canada, Why my spouse not come with me in my interview?
The lady officer cross check with me with my father and my mother- in-law. They call my mother in law to know the real thing. Every question they cross check with my father.
The taugh part for me about whitby town. I know about whitby from my husband but when I told about the Oshawa shopping mall the officer said she did not know about it, I said my husband go to Ayesha mosque then she ask me tell me the time he need to go to the mosque, when I said my husband shopping for Walmart the lady said why Walmart not other place? When I said my husband tried to go to USA but he rejected. The lady officer said you husband need not visa to go to USA, But I said he is immigrant he need visa but the lady still argue with me but I still said my husband not citizen he is immigrant he need visa, but the lady officer argue with me. But I still not change my question. When I tell about whitby Saturday and Sunday bus service the lady said when the bus came after by after?what is the duration about the bus. The lady officer said where your husband buy benglai food and name the shop?
My interview was not easy but my interpreter is very good.All the time the officer want to cross check my question with my father, than she cross check my mother in law. Every time the lady want the explanation like why I made the first conduct with my husband , why not from my husband side, because in western country do like that but in your culture is not happened its like Mikey. My answer is like that, I said because I don’t allow to call any one that’s why I made conduct, it seem makey but its my true story if I want I can tell a lie. So some question is not easy for me but I gave them answer.
Lastly the visa officer said do you want to say something, I said yes. I said my husband gave me every month financial support, I am his insurance benificer, I have a DPS there my husband is my nominee.I have a proof with me. But the officer did not want to see it. After cross check with my mother in law I said the visa office I want to say something I have all those papers that interview required. The Lady said I need your application and police certificate. I gave her and said thank you