mianyasir3777 said:
Dear Applicant,
Now I need help on that as I m unemployed from may 2011 and did nothing in this period till today I mean just stayed at home or with friends normal life etc. I have one elder brother and my father who earns and we all family survive.
Now my question is that
1. What should I reply to them in written as I think I do not have any official document in this case or should I need I don't know
2. And should I reply them by replying to their e mail or in written courier
So this is a Husband case and the wife is Canadian nationality holder.
I am sorry in advance if you get my tone and words harsh. If you put yourself in your VO boots and read your case; you are an Asian and Muslim from Pakistan, while the cultural norms in this region clearly shows that the Man has to work even if the wife is working or not. It is the responsibility of a Man/Husband to bear the expenses of his house and wife. And in Pakistan usually guys need to establish 1st to get married. IDK what happened to your case and you got a Canadian wife even if you were not doing any job, it could be because you were a Landlord or had your business run by your other elder family members of whatever. OR it is also possible that you left job because of XYZ reasons after marrying your wife.
The
red flag of your case is
Cultural Norm and you are AGAINST that.
I have read so many cases so far where there are husband cases too but Husbands never left jobs and they DO support their wives in CANADA.
You have put yourself in a big trouble, it might put you in a doubt of marriage of convenience too, because you might have thought to get PR and then get separation from wife and start doing your job then (It is just a clue to show you how hard the situation is for you now).
Suggestions:
1. Letter from father and brother that they were supporting you in the meantime because of xyz reasons.
2. Get a job in Pakistan and then a letter from your employer that stating you are doing a permanent job on a good salary.
3. Have a solid reason of not working since that stated period of time and DO NOT state and lame excuse of any illness; that might put you into another
BIG TROUBLE.
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