Sure, no problem.
I was in a violent and domestically abusive relationship with my EX husband when I started living with him overseas, the abuse started well before that but I just thought to give the relationship a try and I went to him to live with him. I had applied for his sponsorship just a few months prior to coming to him. It was an outside of Canada application. My ex husband was approved in March 2010.. and than what happened was he took off without informing me in May 2010... Luckily a week prior to him taking off (or a few days prior) I called the embassy where our spousal sponsorship was being handled and they clearly emailed him and told him NOT to come to Canada and that to call the visa office,, but he did not read his email,, and he took off... I believe they would have told him not to take a flight and try landing as his visa was revoked and he would have saved himself the time and hassle.. but oh well he deserved it,, landing and than being sent back to his country.... He abused me in every single way possible including financially, psychically and emotionally... he drained me literally of everything I had... anyhow, he arrived at Pearson intentional 1 day before I did... I had decided to leave him few weeks before..and I am pretty sure that he knew that one day I would have enough of him and leave him. so I think he didn't want to take chances and try to land before me.. But I guess he was too smart to think that I would withdraw the application.. to make the story short... I arrived a day after him,, the airport authorities including CBSA interviewed me for well over an hour and asked me if I am serious and if I was not being pressured by my parents to withdraw the application or anyone else.. and I clearly told them what he had done to me.. and to withdraw it.... He was than sent back... and his visa was canceled... that's all that happened,.. and they also told me that he was not given any landing rights and was NOT ALLOWED to land as that would have given him certain rights... So I am glad it worked out. I am now married again.. I had some counselling on abuse of women, and I am now a lot stronger than I was before,,, I love my husband and he respects me and I respect him...