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HayatElFadil

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Dead_man said:
Hi every body
Am not here to disapoint u, but just to tell u
My story because i really need help and also
Want u to know that people are not the same
There are always good people and bad people
Any way
Am here in canada one year and 2 weeks my wife
Sponsored me to come to canada, every thind was
Ok before i move to canada but after that her behavia
Complaitly chaged she always trait me as a slive
And if i didnt folow her orders she wo deport me to
My country i tryed to be trong but i cant manage any
More, i dont eat proply, i dont sleep weel and mu health
Goes down and down, am dying here
P lease if u have any solution or help i wlk be glad to
Hear u
I wanna try to save me life away from her
I try many time to yalk to her but with no good result
Help please pleasssssssssssse
Hello,I'm sorry to hear about your situation. She's probably scared that you might leave her or you might do something bad to her. Was she like this in your Country or before you got married? It seems like the story is usually the other way around. You should be getting what you want because your the husband.
 

dair2dv8103100

Hero Member
Aug 6, 2010
992
19
Ontario
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
19.05.11
AOR Received.
16.08.11
File Transfer...
26.07.11
Med's Done....
28.02.11/19.03.12
Interview........
06.03.12
Passport Req..
28.05.12
VISA ISSUED...
20.06.12
LANDED..........
Aug 1, 2012 :)
Dead_man said:
Hi every body
Am not here to disapoint u, but just to tell u
My story because i really need help and also
Want u to know that people are not the same
There are always good people and bad people
Any way
Am here in canada one year and 2 weeks my wife
Sponsored me to come to canada, every thind was
Ok before i move to canada but after that her behavia
Complaitly chaged she always trait me as a slive
And if i didnt folow her orders she wo deport me to
My country i tryed to be trong but i cant manage any
More, i dont eat proply, i dont sleep weel and mu health
Goes down and down, am dying here
P lease if u have any solution or help i wlk be glad to
Hear u
I wanna try to save me life away from her
I try many time to yalk to her but with no good result
Help please pleasssssssssssse
First of all, you have your PR so she cannot deport you!! So do not believe this. I also believe in trying to work things out first. But if, as you say, you have tried and it is just not working then you need to find a place to live away from her and see if this helps her realize that what she is doing is serious and you do not deserve to be treated that way.

Are you working now? Are you able to leave and find an apartment? If you are not working then you can apply for government assistance, but she will have to pay this back as your sponsor and will probably not make her very happy and might make things worse for you.

Are you in a community where there is a high Moroccan population? Do you have any friends or family here other than her that could help you?

We need more information really to be able to give better advice. Most of us here understand not everyone is the same and it is hard to hear stories like this. I hope you find the help and peace you are looking for.
 

PMM

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Dead_man said:
Hi every body
Am not here to disapoint u, but just to tell u
My story because i really need help and also
Want u to know that people are not the same
There are always good people and bad people
Any way
Am here in canada one year and 2 weeks my wife
Sponsored me to come to canada, every thind was
Ok before i move to canada but after that her behavia
Complaitly chaged she always trait me as a slive
And if i didnt folow her orders she wo deport me to
My country i tryed to be trong but i cant manage any
More, i dont eat proply, i dont sleep weel and mu health
Goes down and down, am dying here
P lease if u have any solution or help i wlk be glad to
Hear u
I wanna try to save me life away from her
I try many time to yalk to her but with no good result
Help please pleasssssssssssse
You are a PR, your wife can't deport you. If that is what you want, walk away and get on with your life.
 

Habibti

Hero Member
Apr 4, 2011
804
44
Vancouver, Canada
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat, Morocco
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
08-02-2011
File Transfer...
31-03-2011
Med's Done....
10-01-2011 / 06-09-2012
Interview........
12-09-2011 / Denied 4-11-2011
VISA ISSUED...
January 9, 2013
LANDED..........
January 18, 2013 in Montreal
GOOD NEWS!!!! Ecas update: Medical results have been received!!
 

dair2dv8103100

Hero Member
Aug 6, 2010
992
19
Ontario
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
19.05.11
AOR Received.
16.08.11
File Transfer...
26.07.11
Med's Done....
28.02.11/19.03.12
Interview........
06.03.12
Passport Req..
28.05.12
VISA ISSUED...
20.06.12
LANDED..........
Aug 1, 2012 :)
Excellent!! Are you in Morocco now?

Habibti said:
GOOD NEWS!!!! Ecas update: Medical results have been received!!
 

locolynn

Hero Member
May 19, 2008
412
16
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
24-04-07
AOR Received.
08-06-07
Interview........
06-12-07/09-24-08/09-27-11
confused and lonely said:
Hi everyone, I know it has been along time since I have been on here the last you heard is that my husband and I got refused, we appealed and we won it only took 4 yrs. But the minute he got his visa he went to another woman he only used me for to get into canada. I hope and wish nobody else has the pain I am in now, for how him and his family treated me and my family they think I should be good with what he is doing to me. Take care everyone
Wow. Wow. Wow. I am soooo sorry this is happening to you. It took enormous strength to go through what you did to get him to Canada. Try to draw on that strength to get you through these dark times.

Lynn
 

Habibti

Hero Member
Apr 4, 2011
804
44
Vancouver, Canada
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat, Morocco
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
08-02-2011
File Transfer...
31-03-2011
Med's Done....
10-01-2011 / 06-09-2012
Interview........
12-09-2011 / Denied 4-11-2011
VISA ISSUED...
January 9, 2013
LANDED..........
January 18, 2013 in Montreal
dair2dv8103100 said:
Excellent!! Are you in Morocco now?
Yes I am now! :) It was a terrible trip! You won't believe it! I left Vancouver Thursday night and I got in Casablanca on Sunday night. And they lost my suitcase. Many bad adventures. Now everything is fine (since this morning only.... so good so far!).

We are now in Marrakech for a couple of days. It is hot like hell here. It was 53 degrees this afternoon and the receptionist at the hotel said it is a bit colder than usual ???!!!! lol
 

dair2dv8103100

Hero Member
Aug 6, 2010
992
19
Ontario
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
19.05.11
AOR Received.
16.08.11
File Transfer...
26.07.11
Med's Done....
28.02.11/19.03.12
Interview........
06.03.12
Passport Req..
28.05.12
VISA ISSUED...
20.06.12
LANDED..........
Aug 1, 2012 :)
Habibti said:
Yes I am now! :) It was a terrible trip! You won't believe it! I left Vancouver Thursday night and I got in Casablanca on Sunday night. And they lost my suitcase. Many bad adventures. Now everything is fine (since this morning only.... so good so far!).

We are now in Marrakech for a couple of days. It is hot like hell here. It was 53 degrees this afternoon and the receptionist at the hotel said it is a bit colder than usual ???!!!! lol
That is crazy!!!...Did they at least give you a free hotel? Have you got the suitcase now? My goodness that is a nightmare!

I am glad to hear that you are there now and everything is coming together. I dream of visiting Marrakesh.....in the winter...LOL 8)

Well, I really hope and pray he will be coming home with you. Have a great holiday and enjoy your time there....Morocco is magical!!
 

Habibti

Hero Member
Apr 4, 2011
804
44
Vancouver, Canada
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat, Morocco
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
08-02-2011
File Transfer...
31-03-2011
Med's Done....
10-01-2011 / 06-09-2012
Interview........
12-09-2011 / Denied 4-11-2011
VISA ISSUED...
January 9, 2013
LANDED..........
January 18, 2013 in Montreal
Yes, in Chicago they gave me free hotel. And I had to "steal" my own suitcase from the airport as nobody would help me to find it after numerous phone calls and asking different employees. I was lucky to spot it when I returned to the airport. I just grabbed it and ran!
 

dair2dv8103100

Hero Member
Aug 6, 2010
992
19
Ontario
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
19.05.11
AOR Received.
16.08.11
File Transfer...
26.07.11
Med's Done....
28.02.11/19.03.12
Interview........
06.03.12
Passport Req..
28.05.12
VISA ISSUED...
20.06.12
LANDED..........
Aug 1, 2012 :)
Habibti said:
Yes, in Chicago they gave me free hotel. And I had to "steal" my own suitcase from the airport as nobody would help me to find it after numerous phone calls and asking different employees. I was lucky to spot it when I returned to the airport. I just grabbed it and ran!
HAHAHAHAHAHA....I can see the headlines now....Woman Steals Own Luggage From Airport...security cameras caught this image. If you see this woman with her luggage please called 1.800.I have nothing better to report on..... LOL :p

Ah well...you are there and you made it in one piece. Any news from the VO regarding the app?
 

Habibti

Hero Member
Apr 4, 2011
804
44
Vancouver, Canada
Category........
Visa Office......
Rabat, Morocco
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
08-02-2011
File Transfer...
31-03-2011
Med's Done....
10-01-2011 / 06-09-2012
Interview........
12-09-2011 / Denied 4-11-2011
VISA ISSUED...
January 9, 2013
LANDED..........
January 18, 2013 in Montreal
dair2dv8103100 said:
HAHAHAHAHAHA....I can see the headlines now....Woman Steals Own Luggage From Airport...security cameras caught this image. If you see this woman with her luggage please called 1.800.I have nothing better to report on..... LOL :p

Ah well...you are there and you made it in one piece. Any news from the VO regarding the app?
Yes, I imagined the headlines too! lol lol Especially I had only 25 minutes from the moment I got off the train. I did not want to miss the train and spend another afternoon at the airport. So I had to defy and outplay the authorities to get in. Don't ask me how I did it because I was full of adrenaline and nobody on earth could stop me to get my suitcase. So I was running from one corridor to the next, one floor to the next, going up and down the staircase and escalator. I was going crazy. I was missing my clean underwear lol

Then, I found a place where there were around 300 suitcases and luckily mine was on the edge. I just grabbed it before an employee could stop me and I did not stop to sign any papers. I did not care. I had 5 minutes left to return to catch the one o'clock train. At 12:59 I jumped on the train.

We left hot like hell Marrakech (53 degrees) today to go to Agadir where we are renting a villa for one month. No news from the VO.
 

smalls

Full Member
Jun 15, 2011
49
1
Habibti said:
Yes, I imagined the headlines too! lol lol Especially I had only 25 minutes from the moment I got off the train. I did not want to miss the train and spend another afternoon at the airport. So I had to defy and outplay the authorities to get in. Don't ask me how I did it because I was full of adrenaline and nobody on earth could stop me to get my suitcase. So I was running from one corridor to the next, one floor to the next, going up and down the staircase and escalator. I was going crazy. I was missing my clean underwear lol

Then, I found a place where there were around 300 suitcases and luckily mine was on the edge. I just grabbed it before an employee could stop me and I did not stop to sign any papers. I did not care. I had 5 minutes left to return to catch the one o'clock train. At 12:59 I jumped on the train.

We left hot like hell Marrakech (53 degrees) today to go to Agadir where we are renting a villa for one month. No news from the VO.
Agadir is the place to be ...............i Spent my vacation there in june it was awesome especially if u like to party lol. the beach is great and the night life is better with great hospitality.
 

smalls

Full Member
Jun 15, 2011
49
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HI everyone who is dealing with rabat ...today was my first time using ECAS and the answer was : IN PROCESS:

We received xxxxxxx xxxxxxx's application for permanent residence on March 18, 2011.

We started processing xxxxxxx xxxxxxx's application on June 14, 2011.

Medical results have been received.

sooo what do u think about that !! im lil bit confused cus as i saw on this forum when ecas says medical results have been received it means that its in an advanced process !!
 

deegirl

Full Member
Aug 29, 2008
44
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WOMEN NEED TO WISE UP,,,,,MEN FROM MOROCCO ARE USERS



locolynn said:
Wow. Wow. Wow. I am soooo sorry this is happening to you. It took enormous strength to go through what you did to get him to Canada. Try to draw on that strength to get you through these dark times.

Lynn