I am the sponsor of my wife, my wife has now left me making false accusation. And now getting social assistance.
I understand that I have to pay for social assistance.
But I have exceeded the basic requirements as listed in Sponsorship.
As a sponsored Immigrant, I asked my wife to be self-sufficient. And she doesn't want to work.
When I asked her(my wife) to take ESL classes she refused take them saying that she hasn't come to Canada on Student Visa.
She was keep asking me to start sponsorship process for her brother. I told her that I can't do that as I am not in financial position to do so. Day and night she wanted to sit on Internet and Phone, Talk to her family in Back home. Because of this She started complaining about headaches. When I told her stop doing this she started accusing me that I am trying to harass her and that she has women rights in Canada and she will Call them.
Unfortunately due to Recession, I accepted a job from Ontario. outside of my home province as I was struggling with financial need.
she took advantage of this situation and start blaming that I don't want her to live along with me. Everyone know how hard it is to live in Canada on financial basis. specially when you have a house in one province on Mortgage and job on other province. Despite that I used my Credit Cards. to pay for travel tickets. But I was financially at extreme low. One can said that at tipping edge of calling for bankruptcy. Luckily that didn't happened as I got another job offer in my home province and in the same city where my house was.
mean while process for getting hiring is in progress. I visited to my home and give this news to my wife and requesting for sometime that I will be able to over come my financial difficulties and upon explaining my situation she agreed to be supportive and with my reference she ended up getting a Job in Walmart.. But my wife never believed on me. And keep accusing me and my family. And then she attempted a failed suicide, by taking 15 pills that were prescribed by family doctor. I took her to Hospital immediately for treatment. After that I book appointment to family doctor, on asking her that what was the impact of these prescribed pills, she revealed that, those pills are only for mood changing and are not of as significant threat.
In addition, Doctor advise that my wife is keep complaining that you are keeping her away from you and she is having a hard time in settling in Canada. she said, I should send her back home for a while may be she is missing her family.
Keeping this situation, I asked my wife does she wants to go to back home, also taking her family in confidences. upon their agreement I ended up buying her ticket to back home. At same time my wife visited the Walmart asking for vacation. Walmart refuse to give her vacation so she quit the job. I have to ask a lot of loan for this from my sister and parents.
After that, my wife talk to her family and started saying that now she don't want to go back. I told her look I have bought your ticket and I have paid 1500 dollars for tickets. She started accusing me that if she leave home then she will never be able to come back in Canada. And then she called Alberta Health Crisis team who came along with police and took her and officer of law asked me to Cancel her ticket. I Cancelled her ticket and only able to recover half of the amount. After this my wife came along with police and took all her belonging and left fore ever.
few months later, I received a motion from Ontario Court, stating that my wife has now filed a claim for spousal support.
and Ontario works has started paying her welfare.
Now everyone is saying because I sponsor her so I am responsible for paying social assistance. I understand that.
But my question is.
My wife has choose to quit the job. she has moved to Ontario. her entire family lives in her country of origin.
on asking Ontario works that why my wife is not working. They reveal that she has mental illness.
I don't know what should I do. I don't want to get any more debt and I have already fulfill the requirement of sponsorship as sponsor.
To me it appears she just used me to gain access to Canada and now she has already put me into date of more than 40000 dollar and
now she is going for social assistance which would put into further debt.
There are no responsibilities for Sponsored immigrant at all in the Law ?
She is making false stories and everyone is believing her. I reported this incident to CBSA and Ontario works.
My entire life is being destroyed. I am finished.
And now I am reading a post on forums that everyone is saying its costing Canadians a money there for Sponsor should be held responsible?
It appears that I have committed a sin of sponsoring my wife. Tomorrow if she commit a crime, I guess I am the one who will be prosecuted.
I am in extreme psychological, emotional, and financial stress. Death seem easier than life.
I don't know what should I do.
I understand that I have to pay for social assistance.
But I have exceeded the basic requirements as listed in Sponsorship.
As a sponsored Immigrant, I asked my wife to be self-sufficient. And she doesn't want to work.
When I asked her(my wife) to take ESL classes she refused take them saying that she hasn't come to Canada on Student Visa.
She was keep asking me to start sponsorship process for her brother. I told her that I can't do that as I am not in financial position to do so. Day and night she wanted to sit on Internet and Phone, Talk to her family in Back home. Because of this She started complaining about headaches. When I told her stop doing this she started accusing me that I am trying to harass her and that she has women rights in Canada and she will Call them.
Unfortunately due to Recession, I accepted a job from Ontario. outside of my home province as I was struggling with financial need.
she took advantage of this situation and start blaming that I don't want her to live along with me. Everyone know how hard it is to live in Canada on financial basis. specially when you have a house in one province on Mortgage and job on other province. Despite that I used my Credit Cards. to pay for travel tickets. But I was financially at extreme low. One can said that at tipping edge of calling for bankruptcy. Luckily that didn't happened as I got another job offer in my home province and in the same city where my house was.
mean while process for getting hiring is in progress. I visited to my home and give this news to my wife and requesting for sometime that I will be able to over come my financial difficulties and upon explaining my situation she agreed to be supportive and with my reference she ended up getting a Job in Walmart.. But my wife never believed on me. And keep accusing me and my family. And then she attempted a failed suicide, by taking 15 pills that were prescribed by family doctor. I took her to Hospital immediately for treatment. After that I book appointment to family doctor, on asking her that what was the impact of these prescribed pills, she revealed that, those pills are only for mood changing and are not of as significant threat.
In addition, Doctor advise that my wife is keep complaining that you are keeping her away from you and she is having a hard time in settling in Canada. she said, I should send her back home for a while may be she is missing her family.
Keeping this situation, I asked my wife does she wants to go to back home, also taking her family in confidences. upon their agreement I ended up buying her ticket to back home. At same time my wife visited the Walmart asking for vacation. Walmart refuse to give her vacation so she quit the job. I have to ask a lot of loan for this from my sister and parents.
After that, my wife talk to her family and started saying that now she don't want to go back. I told her look I have bought your ticket and I have paid 1500 dollars for tickets. She started accusing me that if she leave home then she will never be able to come back in Canada. And then she called Alberta Health Crisis team who came along with police and took her and officer of law asked me to Cancel her ticket. I Cancelled her ticket and only able to recover half of the amount. After this my wife came along with police and took all her belonging and left fore ever.
few months later, I received a motion from Ontario Court, stating that my wife has now filed a claim for spousal support.
and Ontario works has started paying her welfare.
Now everyone is saying because I sponsor her so I am responsible for paying social assistance. I understand that.
But my question is.
My wife has choose to quit the job. she has moved to Ontario. her entire family lives in her country of origin.
on asking Ontario works that why my wife is not working. They reveal that she has mental illness.
I don't know what should I do. I don't want to get any more debt and I have already fulfill the requirement of sponsorship as sponsor.
To me it appears she just used me to gain access to Canada and now she has already put me into date of more than 40000 dollar and
now she is going for social assistance which would put into further debt.
There are no responsibilities for Sponsored immigrant at all in the Law ?
She is making false stories and everyone is believing her. I reported this incident to CBSA and Ontario works.
My entire life is being destroyed. I am finished.
And now I am reading a post on forums that everyone is saying its costing Canadians a money there for Sponsor should be held responsible?
It appears that I have committed a sin of sponsoring my wife. Tomorrow if she commit a crime, I guess I am the one who will be prosecuted.
I am in extreme psychological, emotional, and financial stress. Death seem easier than life.
I don't know what should I do.
