So... Today I received my GCMS notes... That couldn't have made me more anxious.
1) In February an agent looked at our application; stories, family letters, etc. This agent recommended the waive of the interview. Then nothing until May.
2) On May 27th 2016, a different agent looked at our application and started being very nick picky about certain details, saying that further informations were required to "prove the growth of the relationship".
Now I don't really know how to feel. My husband and I agreed that our situation is not the most common. We fell in love, moved in together after 2 months and 3 months later got married because we couldn't imagine being apart. My husband's working and studying Visa were expiring at the beginning of fall 2015.
We tried as much as possible to keep him in Canada but it became financially really difficult since he couldn't work, and I am a full time student. We've been apart since the end of Novembre 2015 for financial reason and CIC seems to think that it's weird, when they are the ones keeping us apart.
Long story short, my husband and I talk on the phone regularly and send each other pictures and messages by WhatsApp. I was in Brazil in March to be with him. I could only take 10 days off from school.. So it was short, but amazing to be able to be together. We got married for a second time, with a pastor and in a more religious setting since my in-laws are really religious. I mean, our relationship couldn't be moregenuine... But if feels pretty awful to have to convince someone that it is. It's already pretty damn hard to be apart for that long, I am extremely worried we could be rejected.
Still no news from CIC.. Not even to invite us for an interview. I wish I could send them additional proofs of my relationship; flight tickets, pictures of second wedding, etc. That, I guess would help... But I don't think it's possible.
What a nightmare.. But I wouldn't do anything different. When you meet the right person, you make it work.. It doesn't matter how much time and effort it takes.
Oh no!! I'm sorry to hear that I can imagine how frustrating it might be when you are waiting so long for good news ans it turn to be not as good as expected!
But, the process is not over yet actually its not even confirmed they will require more profs of a genuine relationship. As far as I know they cant reject an application like that they do can ask for an interview and I'm sure your husband and you will be fine as the relationship is 100% genuine and you guys know each other so well!!!!!!! Hold on tight! Its not over yet and they didnt even request anything else...
When I was applying the legal assistant that helped my husband and I mentioned we could upgrate more pictures while in process but it would cause a delay in our application as the CIC agents would stop our process to analyze the new files!!
If they call your husband and youfor interview than you an bring all the update pictures/ documents you have...
I hope everything turns good for you two! I can imagine how hard is to be that long apart.... I was in Brazil for 2 weeks withoutmy husband and I almost went crazy!
It's hard but once is done I believe you two will have sooo much to celebrate!!!!! All the best!