Problems like health care existed long before, whether in Democrat government or Republican. Don't throw all the problems you are facing now in just one government, it's a little bit unfair. It's not absurd people who never vote for a Democrat, I know that another half would never vote for a Republican as well. Again, this is what we call Democracy, welcome to this concept, be my guest. Everyone has their own problems to tackle, your problem is not worse than anyone else, just respect others opinion and you should be fine.
I know that the true Democracy for you, existed in Obama era and now it seems that it is suddenly vanished, but worry not, "Democracy will return for you" eventually in a Democrat government, just don't be a bad loser and keep playing the game.
And, don't blame people that don't like socialism, because it is just a stage that will lead eventually to communism. And really, it's not everbody that likes something that was a failure, just take a look at the most recent socialism country Venezuela...