Port of Spain Office, Trinidad and Tobago

[HoneyBird]

i got lots of negatives and no reason why?

 

[CDNGirl]

Honeybird, me too girl! :'(

 

[confusednscared]

I think that day is soon approaching where all of us in this forum will log on with some sort of update because we all will have receive some sort of brown envelope from the POS office.

 

[Vinnigurl]

I hope you are right confused...

 

[confusednscared]

It's another day and I am hoping e-CAS has some sort of update for any of us in this forum.

Each day I keep saying to myself that "this is the day" and I get too anxious for my partner to go home from work and just check the mailbox. LOL .... long behold, there is never a brown envelope with my name written on it

 

[HoneyBird]

i am getting worried too
i was hoping to hear something by the end of november
hubby is coming in december
he wanted to take me back..lol
and he wants to go europe in january for his father's bday.
i want to go too but i have exhausted my vacation and i don't have any until June 01. (1 month)
its gonna be extremely rough the next couple of months...
cause visa expired at the end of december, no vacation leave and hubby doesn't like to come trini when i have to leave him home and go to work everyday.
my only option is to try for a visitor visa...so at least in March (carnival long weekend) but i think that is a dead end.
reastically when he goes back in january i wont see him until juneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee provided i got the damn visa! AND that will make it a year since application was submitted!

 

[confusednscared]

Honey,

Decisions, decisions, decisions .... sometimes we have to do what we feel is right or at other times just hold up until things work out best in our favors. Least you can't complain and say you are not seeing hubby at all. You get to see him at least every 2 months or so and that should add up to all your "missing-out" time. On the good side, you get to see him and you get to travel and see him in Canada which is great.

Some applicants don't get this opportunity as much as you do I am sure not seeing him for 6 months wouldn't really cause any harm to you or your relationship unless you are really obsessive

 

[HoneyBird]

6 months s a long time.

 

[confusednscared]

girl are you crazzzzzz-eeeeeeeeeeee ...... 6 months ain't nothing in CIC's books unless you are really *ahemm* that you always need a lot of *ahemm* ..... LOL

 

[HoneyBird]

CIC has reduced my sex drive.
Out of sight? out of mind.
Honestly...no drive to do it whatso ever.
When hubby comes...all i want to do is just huggy and get pet up.
then maybe a two days after i am ready.

i was never this way before! damnCIC.
i jsut feel if i go 6 months and more without seeing him, he is gonna get more and more fustrated and we would be like strangers meeting again for the first time.

 

[confusednscared]

TLC'ing is more important, right?

 

[CDNGirl]

Well, I went in September and now I`m going back in January for his birthday with an open ticket, thank god my work is soo great that I can leave and come as I feel, working with family is the best now.. haha

 

[Mancrab]

Hello Honeybird,
I have excellent news from my end, my wife called me this morning and she got a letter informing
her to bring her passport and immigration photos in. The letter was dated 15-11-2010, and she has 60 days to bring
in her passport, I am so excited, I hope that you have the same joyous news for us today also. The office in Trinidad
is working after all, they heard our outcries.

 

[confusednscared]

CONGRATSSS MANCRAB!!!!

WOOOO HOOOOOOOOO 8)

 

[Mancrab]

confused,
I know we are not at the finish line yet, but when you informed us about the added load
assigned to the Trinidad office, my stomach was a vacuum. It's a pretty helpless feeling when someone
else is making such a significant decision on ones life. A five hundred pound gorilla that was on my shoulder
is off me now. Like you said yesterday, there will be a wave of good news in here soon.