Hey everyone, I'd like your advice (especially Zouk since her hubby is from Dominica):
So my stage 1 was just approved. Presumably my application is on its way to POS or just getting there now. I applied common-law so I want to give as much proof as possible, since I'm sure we're one of those "red flag" couples because of the different race/background etc. So since we filed, I have added him as my beneficiary and I have kept track of my sending him money several times as well as our daily conversations (skype, etc). Personally, I feel like I SHOULD send it to them because, before applying, I had never had him as my beneficiary and had never sent him money (cuz we were living together lol, duh) and we also did not have too much chat history (skype, etc) because, again, we saw each other daily in person. I feel like I should mail it now, since it will likely be awhile before they even touch my application, so it wouldnt cause THAT much of a delay and hopefully they could match up my new stuff with my application? Or would I have to wait for AOR (or let some time pass) so that they have me in the computer before I sent new stuff?
Problem is, I have heard that sending new proof can cause pretty significant delays, especially if they already started working on your file... as they have to pull the file out, add a bunch of stuff you sent, then re-file and it may change the date to look at it again to a later one since it was pulled out of the order/line.
So my thinking was, get it there super early and then hopefully they would match it up while it was still at the very back of the line (like I am now) anyway, and not lose time. However, at this point, I do not know if they would be able to match it up (because I feel like it will be just sitting in a "Received but Not Yet Opened" pile for a few months and maybe all the stuff I send will get lost and never get matched)...
Advice? I do NOT want to delay my application but I also do not want to get denied and I feel like these are sort of important proofs...
Help?