Pls help

[kumarh2020]

I obtained a visa for visit with my whole family
We both met through friends and soon after 10 months or so decided to get married he’s from haryana I’m from gujrat my age was just 18 when I got married he’s hindu I’m Christian

Everything about your case is a red flag for the IRCC officer.

From first and many glances, and reviews, this seems to be a marriage of convenience to obtain PR for Canada. Now, we could be wrong, and it would be a genuine one, but you have a loooootttt of points to prove in your favour.

1. You were 18 when you met a student in Canada, an age that is not considered to be highly mature.

2. You probably just passed 12th, and on a family visit to Canada, decided to meet prospects and gave about 10 months and decided to get married.

3. Inter-religion, and not both set of parents at wedding, nor a full size wedding (possibly court marriage?)

4. As newlyweds, or as married, you both spent a longer than usual time away from each other.

Provide all the documents as requested and see what happens. You’ll need a lot of convincing and proofs to show you both were madly interested in each other to come to conclusion to get married at a very young age of 18, possibly just highschool passed. And you’ll have to show the years you weren’t together, how you both stayed in touch and kept your relationship alive. Did he support you financially, or gave you gifts? Show them.

Did you live with your in-laws in their home during the waiting or staying away from your spouse for so many years? Prove it

 

[kumarh2020]

Yes

Yes I gave them some Skype screenshots and some chat history but they still not convinced by that I will maybe apply soon again but do you know anything about visitor visa deactivate if so pls respond

Yes they have the right to deactivate a visitor visa when they can clearly see your situation has changed. You’re now showing a spouse in Canada, which becomes your strong tie to go and stay with. While there is nothing wrong with this, they feel you’ll not respect the rules of visitor visa, and that you will not return to Canada.

You’ll need to apply for spousal sponsorship once he is a PR here. Your visitor visa requests will always get rejected.

 

[kumarh2020]

I just don’t understand that if they deactivated why are they now asking for those documents

They as a country, and for their border safety, want to verify all details as you’ve had visitor visa (which they rightfully deactivated) after your unsuccessful applications of SOWP etc. they want to verify more details about you, and your background to ensure whether they want to reactivate your visa, leave it deactivated, flag you in their system for fraud, or ban you from entering Canada under any stream for 5 years, or ban you from entering Canada forever if your marriage is deemed fraudulent and that it was a marriage of convenience just to enter into Canada after which you and your supposed husband would apply for divorce and both will be free to go.

 

[kumarh2020]

I just don’t understand that if they deactivated why are they now asking for those documents

I would suggest, be responsible, and mature, and either involve your parents to assist you along with a good registered immigration lawyer. By communicating yourself with IRCC, you’ll just make more mistakes and cause your case to get even more and more difficult to resolve or even result in you getting banned from Canada forever.

 

[kumarh2020]

Ok thanks for replying as I’m really busy I don’t want to send them anything

This isn’t just about today. If you leave it, it’s not going away. 1..2..5..10..20..40 years later even if you apply for anything towards Canada or USA, your file will come up with all these requests for documents, red flags, old applications, history of travel and frauds etc.

Best is to find a good immigration lawyer, and work with them and your parents to resolve your matter. I’m assuming you’re hardly 21 or maybe 22.

 

[canuck78]

We were together for 10 months before marriage

When you say you were together for 10 months were you dating like western people date, living together, was he still living at home, we’re you living with him at his home (separate rooms or together?), were you spending time in groups, how many time would you see each other per week, etc. These questions may seem intrusive but the answers establish what type of in person relationship you have had.

Now that we know you were only 18 and you had a small non-traditional ceremony with only his mother the question will be what was the rush given that you were only 18. It is very unusual for people toget married so young in Canada and it Is fairly unusual for young people to get married without parents attending unless the parents are against the marriage, unable to get a visa to travel to either home country, unable to travel due to illness or disability.

 

[Perlin220]

When you say you were together for 10 months were you dating like western people date, living together, was he still living at home, we’re you living with him at his home (separate rooms or together?), were you spending time in groups, how many time would you see each other per week, etc. These questions may seem intrusive but the answers establish what type of in person relationship you have had.

Now that we know you were only 18 and you had a small non-traditional ceremony with only his mother the question will be what was the rush given that you were only 18. It is very unusual for people toget married so young in Canada and it Is fairly unusual for young people to get married without parents attending unless the parents are against the marriage, unable to get a visa to travel to either home country, unable to travel due to illness or disability.

I understand but he is soon coming to India at that time we are planning a ceremony with our parents and friends since all of our parents are agreed we can include those in next application too