Thanks for the replies!
That's part of what i'm trying to clarify. I'm going to an immigrant services in Kingston next week to discuss my situation and current application, and will gather any useful info (!) i can from the call centre again. As i said, i dont now want to overstay my welcome and make it appear like i am abusing any system. If i can leave and reenter, without any punishment, that is my goal. I am also in the Express Entry pool on 462pts and feel i may be close to an offer (although the less said about the EE system the better!!) and dont want to ruin my chances through this avenue by any infringement caused now.
Ideally, i come back in. My Inland PR application is still valid, and i can apply for an OWP and wait 4 months. Bingo Bongo!
If my Inland PR is invalid because of my Out of Status, then i will come back in and reapply Outland and be prepared to wait the >12 months it takes a UK application, and just forgo the OWP.
Been here 3 yrs and always been trying to do everything right, from study visa, PGWP, CEC application, now EE and Family sponsorship. Dont want to feck it up now!