I can totally relate my mom wasn't too fond about us. She's coming around more I hope one day she can get along with my husband. My husband has always says he loves her no matter what. He loves her daughter so he loves her even though she doesn't like him. He says we're family now I can't wait to meet the in laws.Ms Malawi said:
Dreadedpiper: I hear ya!! I was thinking the same thing, should have mailed my application a week earlier, it seems that some agents were processing fairly quickly at that time, then it all slowed down and we're still waiting! Hopefully, we'll hear something soon. I tried to get in with my receipt number (I have paid all the fees) but can't get anything...it seems that nothing is in the system yet for us! I just hope they have our application!!!!thedreadedpiper said:No movement on my case either... I wish I had got organised and sent everything in a week earlier, or waited a few weeks! Either way it seems things would be going quicker!
I already have a client ID number as I'm currently in Canada on a TWP so have been using that to check e-cas.... but no love from CIC yet.
I tried to call this PM but: "we're experiencing a high volume of calls....and then it cuts off". I'll try again tomorrow at 8am! hopefully, I'll get someone who knows something about our file. Fingers crossed! I hope all November applicants who are still waiting for stage 1 hear something soooooon!!
I would call early in the morning. I called around 730 (Mountain Time) when I had to ask a question and got through on 3 rings. Wishing you luck.Bibiche said:Dreadedpiper: I hear ya!! I was thinking the same thing, should have mailed my application a week earlier, it seems that some agents were processing fairly quickly at that time, then it all slowed down and we're still waiting! Hopefully, we'll hear something soon. I tried to get in with my receipt number (I have paid all the fees) but can't get anything...it seems that nothing is in the system yet for us! I just hope they have our application!!!!
Hubby sounds like a sweet man. And I do beleive in time, when your mom sees how happy he makes you and that he is "serious" about you and your future, it is a good thing. I got really lucky. I have spent time with all of my immediate extended family. And seeing their unconditional acceptance and love just because Mr. M loves me, really warms my heart and makes me know my family will completely come around in time.oneandonly said:
I like to say that my mother-in-law is the perfect mother-in-law: she lives 8,000 miles away!Ms Malawi said:
Hahaha.. Well you did get lucky on that one. I would sooner live next door to my mother in law and thousands of miles away from my immediate family tho!!IvanP said:
Same here! My side is not fond of the idea either... But my in laws are all about it! My parents understand I just think they're having a harder time letting go of their "baby girl" right now lol.... But I look at it this way, it gives them a place to go on vacation! I guess my family just doesn't understand the whole meeting online thing nowadays. It's funny cause we didn't meet on a dating site we met on this website called stickam and neither of us were looking but we found rah other and couldn't resistoneandonly said:
it was crazy and quite the experience drivi 12 hrs to Canada by myself but I'm so glad I did it it's good to know tht other people are in the same boat as me as fr as meeting on the Internet and having your parents not really approve. I wa scared immigration would look further into that bc they'd want to get to the bottom of why my parents werent okay with it. I love hearing others stories on how they met their loved ones!
That's my mother says I will always be her baby I think she is having a hard time letting me go. She will get over it sooner or later.bscinto92 said:
I'll try tomorrow morning early, hope to talk to a human being!! Hope we'll hear positive news SOON nzandcanada!! Kep us posted!nzandcanada said:Hi There,
I'm in the same situation. Our application was received on Nov 28th by the CIC and we have not heard a word. I've called twice and finally got my client ID so I can see on the online status that they have received it. That time she told me not to pay attention to the number of days - only to the day they were at (Nov 20). But as of today's update they are now way overdue!
I tried to call today. After 15 mins on hold someone answered, asked me about my application, then said she would forward me to the right person. It rang and then an automated message came on saying that they were too busy to take my call, and it hung up. Really, they are setting up a situation to have very frustrated applicants! This is not acceptable. I have really exercised patience in the past 3 months... but now I'm starting to lose my cool
Not that I want to admit it, but there are cases where applications have been "misplaced" and the couple had to resubmit them. Let's hope that isn't that case for any of us still waiting!!Alex_29 said:
I quite enjoy the experience of hearing other people's expereince and journey to where they are today. We all have a story to tell!bscinto92 said:Same here! My side is not fond of the idea either... But my in laws are all about it! My parents understand I just think they're having a harder time letting go of their "baby girl" right now lol.... But I look at it this way, it gives them a place to go on vacation! I guess my family just doesn't understand the whole meeting online thing nowadays. It's funny cause we didn't meet on a dating site we met on this website called stickam and neither of us were looking but we found rah other and couldn't resist
