Yeah, that's one of the things that annoy me is that we are often judged. I don't like to act like a victim but I'm often pulled aside for questioning and sometimes I can't help but wonder if it is because I am brown. I dress conservatively and look pretty innocent but the colour of my skin is perhaps the reason why I am more suspicious. Who knows? My boyfriend is a whole other story. He's white, covered in tattoos, ears stretched and dreadlocks and I often wonder if they immediately assume he is a drug dealer.
Between the two of us, we have had so many difficulties travelling especially every time we hit a US border.
I think it's absolutely fine for them to do their jobs and be suspicious of people. They should be able to ask invasive questions and ensure that nothing illegal is going on. But, I don't agree that they should be able to search your car without your presence. Nor do I agree that there is any need to be so rude.
Anyway, yes, we are in Toronto and are going to view apartments tonight..... hopefully we'll find something awesome and settle down so that we can get cracking with a regular life again!