in my personal opinion,
marcus is either looking for cheap popularity or he has personality problems and is just seriously depressed.
i read thru each and every post on that thread, the guy (marcus) was not even prepared to accept or even be open to any help or suggestions and was very rude and insensitive to people who tried to help.
i think he should see a shrink. lol
well to the main issue of whether one should opt for the pr or not
i think, like tinu rightly said, it is a thing of personal opinion and mostly depend on situation u currently find urself.
To me, whether to get the pr or not is not the contentious issue here, cos we all know what we stand to benefit from developed countries, compared to our dearly beloved country( 9ja), but the really(de koko) issue is what do we do after we get it.
we must sit down and ask ourselves serious questions and be honest in answering them. if possible put pen to paper and itemize the advantages and disadvantages of leaving our present situation and packing all our bags and zooming off to Canada.
let me explain by giving this two senerios:
1) i know of a guy who was affected by the banking tsunami in 9ja in dec 2009 with oceanic bakl and since then till date he has done everything possible to get another job, even willing to do lower level jobs, all to to avail. he applied for the canadian pr in early 2010 after loosing his job and recently got the pr and is planning to move permanently. he worked in the banking industry for 9 yrs. he told me that if he had recieved the pr in 2010, his 2yrs of joblessness would have been spent hustling to settle in canada. he feels they are wasted yrs
one the other hand
2) my cousin, and the husband who was then working with shell warri as a masters degree holder in mech. engineering, got pr to the US along side with their two boys in 2001, thru the husband's mother who is an American citizen.
almost all their friends then in warri decided to leave shell and relocate to Canada and America. my cousin and the husband decided not to. they would only go to America twice a yr cos that was what was required for the visa to be valid. when i asked him why,
he told me that he would only migrate if he gets a job that will give him the standard of living he is has in 9ja and also save what he was currently saving at the time. he was always on-line searching for jobs in the us but couldn't get any.
when the cost of moving himself and his family to the us twice a yr started affecting is savings he decided to move my cousin and the kids to the us permanently in 2003, he would visit twice a yr.
in 2006 when my cousin and the 3 kids(she had a girl in the us) got their citizenship, she planned to join the hubby in lag(he had been transferred to lag) but he landed himself a very good job with an oil firm in Saudi Arabia, and they all moved there.
they have all lived in Saudi since 2006 till this yr when he got another good job with an oil firm in texas. They all moved to texas this summer and are doing very well. They built a duplex in warri and a dupex and 4 flats in PH b4 they left. they currently own a house in Atlanta Georgia.
i can tell u that they are currently doing beter than all their friends that left then, though the guy doesn't have his citizenship yet cos he has only been spending holidays in the us. but he will get it soon, now that he is in the us.
i am sorry for this long writeup cos i am not very good at it, i just feel i have to do this so that people can understand the situation.
if u are planning to migrate, ask urself these quetions and be honest with urself in answering them:
1) what are the things i stand to gain by completely relocating? itemize them e.g beter standard of living, better education for my kids e.t.c
2) what are the things i stand to loose by completely relocating? itemize them e.g time wastage, possible change of profession e.t.c
3) which one of the two above outweighs the other, not necessarily in terms of numbers alone but also in value.
then the answer weather to pack ur bags and go will be right in front of u.
i think i am tired of typing. lol
stay blessed all and have a very beautiful weekend all