I don't understand how the system works, me and my husband went to college for 6 years and dated 5 yrs before marriage, and trust me we had alotttttt of proof, dating back to the beginning of college , after college, my several trips to India , thousand of what's app pages, Skype, calls, even letters by post. Everyone from my family flew to India for the wedding. First marriage and first everything for us, I even put in notes we wrote each other during lectures. But it's completely ndvos hands, we are all so very lucky to have had found "the one " I was born and raised in Canada, went to India for college, I never thought I would fall in love, but when I'm actually away I know how much I miss him.
We can all get through this, keep smiling