Firstly, it's unfortunate that some of you think I was accusing anyone of "spreading negative energy" that isn't the case at all. I was simply asking how there can be such certainty with the responses. I get it.. you've been on this forum for a long time and take stock of what the general experiences have been and formulate time frames etc. I understand completely now how you are gaining this information, however, every case is different as is every application.
I know people who have had their applications processed in much shorter time frames and this is why I made queries as to how you really know. If you failed to produce a proper application, this will create a very long delay. If you don't have fees paid up front, this can cause another really long delay, and the list goes on. So, without knowing the applicants facts, you are basing your responses on the feedback you are receiving from this forum alone.
There are thousands of us waiting to reunite with our families and we are all being punished for the crimes that others have committed in the past, like being paid out to marry someone to come to Canada and then divorcing once the PR goes through. This has been the main reason why we are now all suffering and being questioned of the validity of our relationships.
We are at the mercy of the NDVO to make our lives complete. I did not, and do not want to offend anyone for all the good work and information produced by this forum, nor do I want an apology for stating what you believe are the facts. This is your thoughts on the process, based on your information but that doesn't mean that they are 100% accurate,
that's all.
I can chose to take the information, believe it, or not. A forum to me is about expressing views and receiving feedback, not to take things personally or as a personal attack against you. It was never my intent to create animosity or as some quoted "negative energy" to the forum. I joined to support everyone who is in the same situation and to receive support, regardless of my questioning. I never expected to be defending myself or to read that I should just quit the forum because I don't believe what i'm told.
That isn't a very mature response and clearly after reading that, I am even more disheartened that I have been judged. You don't even know me or the kind of person I am and to just tell me to get lost because I question someone is cruel.
For the record, I'm a woman NOT a man. Good luck to everyone, may you continue to receive the support you are looking for through this forum. It clearly isn't for me.
God Bless.
. i was one among who had zero knowledge about spouse sponsor stuff before joining this forum. i appreciate every one for the gud work, supporting each other, respecting others emotions... 
