Hi Kiran, frustrated123 and to everyone else on the forum,
It can be very frustrating to wait and wait and wait and not know what to expect. It's like being lost in a forest with no moon on a cloudy night. You don't know what to expect and what will happen.
But this forum and all its members, I find, is like that beacon of light that is needed to show us all the way out of the Forest of Misery so that we may find our piece of Heaven on the other side.
Like I had posted earlier today, I will say it again
We are like your family and your best friends here and we will undoubtedly help you along with anything. We are all in the same boat and we can all understand what you are going through.
It really helps letting out all of your frustrations and telling them to someone who can understand.
The most important thing is never give up or let your spirits down. Think of this as a test that will only make you stronger, and your marriage stronger.
And once you are with your husband or wife, which will be soon, there will be no distances, walls, boundaries, forces... that will keep you apart.
So enjoy the time you have with your family right now, while you are in India. Canada will be different from India, so take the time to enjoy things that you may not be able to do in Canada once you are there because you will be enjoying many other things.
And Cheer Up
NDVO officers are like demons who have miserable lives and they want to inflict the same onto us by not keeping us updated, and confused... so don't let them win. Once this whole process is done, you can move forward and always remember this ordeal as another obstacle that you had to break or jump over in order to strengthen yourself in many ways.
Success after a struggle to achieve a goal is sweeter than achieving the same result without struggling because you know that you worked hard for it and deserve it a lot more.
Best of Luck with all your applications
Stay Positive!
And remember, we are always here if you ever feel down
