DONE WITH THE INTERVIEW JUST FEW MINUTES AGO!!!!
Am feeling terrible about it! Here are the few points/questions that can help you friends.
As soon as I was called inside, the very first statement is "I need your honest answers ok";
Interviewed by a white lady; duration = nearly 1 hr; They keep on typing everything in a computer when they keep questioning you.
Questions:
All the dates - Meeting dates/months; when did you meet her; where and how; questions repeated again to cross check (Eg: sorry when did you say you meet her)
Why there is no marriage photo that shows you both going around the fire as per hindu custom. Asked twice doubtedly.
How come you have married a divorce who has a kid. That's not common in India. (Asked atleast 3-4 times)
I wonder how you fell in love with a lady who was already married once.
Where is her kid now? why he is in India?
I see that you worked in Canada? how about your job now?
Are your parents ok with your marriage.
How come in India you both lived together? It's not common and unusual.
After asking all these questions, she asks me to get the RCMP done since I was working in Canada. SUCKSSSSSS!!
Unfortunately we didn't get the RCMP done while I was in CANADA. Medical has to be re-done as it's already expired!!!
I told I have come for a vacation for 3 weeks. so she asks me to go back to Canada (get the visa stamped from the company working as it's expired) and get the RCMP done and send it to Ottawa!! If RCMP done from India it will take too long, hence (she was trying to help me out).
******Why the heck it didn't click to us that I lived in Canada for a year and I shud have got the RCMP done here.!!! GODDDD such a horrible phases of life.***********
Everything will be communicated in email.
Didn't even ask the PP..
IS THERE SOMEONE WHO CAN MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND THAT INDIA HAS CHANGED A LOT PAST DECADES. AND PEOPLE GET MARRIED TO WIDOWS, DIVORCES ETC and there is no harm.!!!
AND NOT NECESSARY TO TURN AROUND THE FIRE IF YOU GET MARRIED SIMPLY IN TEMPLE!!!!!
FELT HORRIBLY SUCKS! #($)& @ )#* @ #)*
Now I don't know when they will ask me to get the medicals done and when will I travel back to Canada on work visa (company is reluctant to take me to a project) and get RCMP done and send it to Ottowa.
I asked her if in cases if am not able to go back to Canada on work visa what should I do, how will I get the RCMP done. she says "Please inform us in that case"
But how long is all these process!!!!!!!!!!!!??? have vented all my sarrow, angry, frustration here guys. SORRY!
All the best for others who's interview is scheduled.!
Cheers.