need sponsorship advice on complicated situation

[Orcity]

I met my girlfriend online 6 months ago. I live in USA, She lives in Canada. I recently met her for the first time and we love eachother, she wants to sponsor my perminant residency so that we can be togeather, we will get married if we necessary, and we have phone documentation that we talked on skype for 4-6 hours every night for the entire time, also over 60 thousand facebook messages back and fourth. I recently got her with the border patrol telling me that I did not have enough evidence to stay, and he was about to process inadmissible and send me home until he talked to my girlfriend in person. We got through that and they gave me a visitors slip saying that I have to return to USA in a week from now, they said I have to hand it in to them when I leave. I will leave if I absolutely have to, I have a plane ticket, but I was wondering if there was anyway I could legally stay with my girlfriend without leaving. What happens if I dont leave, will they come after me? We are filing the PR and sponsor documents asap. the official website says that I do not have to be legal for her to sponsor me.

honestly I do not ever want to deal with border patrol again in my life, they held me for 4 hours, had a dog sniff me, patted me down like a criminal, yelled at me and accused me of having extacy with no proof when I have never touched that in my life, they finally let that go after they scared the crap out of me when they couldn't find anything. They even broke a few of my belongings in searching for it. I really just want to be with her and not deal with this fake imaginary line that keeps us enslaved and separated.

 

[zardoz]

I met my girlfriend online 6 months ago. I live in USA, She lives in Canada. I recently met her for the first time and we love eachother, she wants to sponsor my perminant residency so that we can be togeather, we will get married if we necessary, and we have phone documentation that we talked on skype for 4-6 hours every night for the entire time, also over 60 thousand facebook messages back and fourth. I recently got her with the border patrol telling me that I did not have enough evidence to stay, and he was about to process inadmissible and send me home until he talked to my girlfriend in person. We got through that and they gave me a visitors slip saying that I have to return to USA in a week from now, they said I have to hand it in to them when I leave. I will leave if I absolutely have to, I have a plane ticket, but I was wondering if there was anyway I could legally stay with my girlfriend without leaving. What happens if I dont leave, will they come after me? We are filing the PR and sponsor documents asap. the official website says that I do not have to be legal for her to sponsor me.

honestly I do not ever want to deal with border patrol again in my life, they held me for 4 hours, had a dog sniff me, patted me down like a criminal, yelled at me and accused me of having extacy with no proof when I have never touched that in my life, they finally let that go after they scared the crap out of me when they couldn't find anything. They even broke a few of my belongings in searching for it. I really just want to be with her and not deal with this fake imaginary line that keeps us enslaved and separated.

OK, I'll reply to this copy of your question...
If you don't leave on time, you are asking for serious problems...
There is no way for you to be sponsored at the moment unless you get married.
You need to cohabit for a continuous 12 months period before you can claim common-law status.

Don't make a big mistake... You will regret it in the long term.

 

[agarand8]

I agree that there is not much you can do to make your situation worse besides overstaying your visa. You need to leave, if you don't you will eventually be deported.

You need to get married and document everything that you do together. Go onto the immigration Canada website and take a look at the forms and documents that you will need to submit the application, it's a lot of work and if you're serious about it you should start gathering papers and relationship evidence now.