Popowich said:
Okay. We're a little worried as our relationship began online and all those chats were through an old messenger that saved the logs to local PC (which we no longer own). My husband was also not the biggest fan of taking his pic so we have some but not a ton. The biggest worry is our marriage was non traditional. Neither of us believed in having a big fancy ceremony so we did a civil marriage.
Would letters from friends/family who have known us through our relationship help?
you don't need actual logs. just referencing the way we communicated was enough in our application. if you feel the need to, you can explain why you didn't have copies to include.
there are many people who don't have large weddings. having a civil ceremony or a small wedding does not make it less authentic or legitimate. . anything you have from that day will work, an invite, pictures, a menu, etc. anything you have that shows your relationship is on going will help
Popowich said:
Also wanted to add we have found a few FB entries of us together. Do we screen shot those and send a print of the screenshot? I do apologize for my lack of knowledge in the area. We're scrambling to do this after finding out a lot of the CEC apps were returned.
yes, screenshots are fine. i did screen shots for specific posts about trips/events/outing for each year of our relationship.