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My wife(sponsor) wants divorce me a month after I landed

Ttcdfolk

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08-02-2013
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07-07-2013
josedavids said:
Thank all of you for your advices. Yes, my wife went a couple of times to my home country and stayed with me and my family, parents, cousins, siblings, etc, and she knew how my children behave. That is why I am surprised she took this decition before talking to me about this matter. I am now waiting for the PR Cards to arrive at her house, and wait for her to send them to me. She has told me that as soon she gets the cards she will send them to me.

But she is repeating me that the main reason she wants a divorce is because my children! I dont know whats happening to her. The couple of weeks we stayed at her place, yes my children argued with her a couple of times the first week, the next ones they didnt have any problem.

Also we talked about living in a near future without my children, they were gonna get a place for themselves. But give me a break, a new country, new language, mixed feelings like feeling a little homesick etc, this was new for everyone of us. Also she doesnt have children, and most of the time she has lived by herself. We planned a lot of things in our marriage to do in a near future. :( Thats why I want to return to Canada, to talk to her and continue our marriage, because I love her.

Good for you, high five. I hope it works out for you, truthfully.
 

Ttcdfolk

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07-07-2013
CanadianJeepGuy said:
So if you are my Immigration officer why don't you get off this site and go work on my application. Then I have no need to be sarcastic.
Then you would have nothing better to do.
 

CanadianJeepGuy

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Jun 24, 2012
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Doc's Request.
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AOR Received.
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09-10-2012
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Med's Done....
Dec 2011; re-med May 06 2013
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May 06 2013
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June 15th 2013
Ttcdfolk said:
Then you would have nothing better to do.
But you would.
 

parker24

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Ttcdfolk said:
Then you would have nothing better to do.
I've come to ignore JeepGuy. He's very argumentative so just ignore and move on :)
 

Ttcdfolk

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08-02-2013
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07-07-2013
parker24 said:
I've come to ignore JeepGuy. He's very argumentative so just ignore and move on :)
Thank you, I will cause I got to go to work. It's morning here in China. Y'all have a good day you hear.
 

CanadianJeepGuy

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Jun 24, 2012
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10-05-2012; "In Process" 26-04-2013
Doc's Request.
docs and pics resent 04-09-2012
AOR Received.
16-08-2012 (Unofficial. Received email missing docs)
File Transfer...
09-10-2012
Med's Request
April 14th 2013
Med's Done....
Dec 2011; re-med May 06 2013
Interview........
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Passport Req..
May 06 2013
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May 27 2013
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June 15th 2013
parker24 said:
I've come to ignore JeepGuy. He's very argumentative so just ignore and move on :)
I comment about things I consider to be right or wrong. If you believe otherwise you are free to state your case as am I. If it comes off as argumentative it is not intended. In your case I try to answer your uniformed bias. With Ttcdfolk his smugness was unappreciated.
 

parker24

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04-01-2013
CanadianJeepGuy said:
I comment about things I consider to be right or wrong. If you believe otherwise you are free to state your case as am I. If it comes off as argumentative it is not intended. In your case I try to answer your uniformed bias. With Ttcdfolk his smugness was unappreciated.
Uninformed bias BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

That was a good one.
 

co16062012

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ANYONE HAS POPCORN I CAN GET SOME PLEASE!!!!!!! 8)
 

CdnandTrini

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Reply: My wife(sponsor) wants divorce me a month after I landed

CanadianJeepGuy said:
So if you are my Immigration officer why don't you get off this site and go work on my application. Then I have no need to be sarcastic.
lmao, rolling on the floor......score one for the CanadianJeepGuy..... ;)
 

Ttcdfolk

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Re: Reply: My wife(sponsor) wants divorce me a month after I landed

CdnandTrini said:
lmao, rolling on the floor......score one for the CanadianJeepGuy..... ;)
Score one for the canadianjeepguy, the funny thing is I am the one with the visa not him. And that's what we are all waiting for. And well if Ottawa lost your stuff that sucks and ya I guess I would be angry. But one guy was angry on here cause he was a pr and his wife's visa was taking 24 months so he decided to leave and live with her and immigration Canada found out and denied the visa, and it was Canada's fault.
 

co16062012

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Re: Reply: My wife(sponsor) wants divorce me a month after I landed

Ttcdfolk said:
Score one for the canadianjeepguy, the funny thing is I am the one with the visa not him. And that's what we are all waiting for. And well if Ottawa lost your stuff that sucks and ya I guess I would be angry. But one guy was angry on here cause he was a pr and his wife's visa was taking 24 months so he decided to leave and live with her and immigration Canada found out and denied the visa, and it was Canada's fault.
But one guy was angry on here cause he was a pr and his wife's visa was taking 24 months so he decided to leave and live with her and immigration Canada found out and denied the visa, and it was Canada's fault.

just reference about the last part of that statement, whats your concept on love and marriage,while i understand this was still stupid of them, but they say love makes you do crazy things, so yes you have being married 10yrs and 2 kids, what if it didnt take for months but took 14months what would you say now.
 

Ttcdfolk

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Re: Reply: My wife(sponsor) wants divorce me a month after I landed

co16062012 said:
But one guy was angry on here cause he was a pr and his wife's visa was taking 24 months so he decided to leave and live with her and immigration Canada found out and denied the visa, and it was Canada's fault.

just reference about the last part of that statement, whats your concept on love and marriage,while i understand this was still stupid of them, but they say love makes you do crazy things, so yes you have being married 10yrs and 2 kids, what if it didnt take for months but took 14months what would you say now.

I LIVE IN CHINA with my wife, most Canadian citizens are not willing to leave their cushy first world country to live with their spouse. Sucks for prs cause they can't but citizens sure can. Get on a plane and go and live with your spouse. We have lived together for ten years, so what would I say nothing, what would I do, get on a plane and move to China with my wife. :p. I getter done, I don't complain but others not doing their job right, I will do that for them too.

That being said if I was a pr in Canada. I would have worked 12 hours days like a redneck albertan on the rigs, so when my wife got here she would have a nice place to live. Chinese live this way in their own country and see each other only on holidays, the wife in Beijing and the husband in Shanghai, sucks but it gets them ahead. Guess that's why China and Alberta are doing so well.
 

co16062012

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Re: Reply: My wife(sponsor) wants divorce me a month after I landed

Ttcdfolk said:
I LIVE IN CHINA with my wife, most Canadian citizens are not willing to leave their cushy first world country to live with their spouse. Sucks for prs cause they can't but citizens sure can. Get on a plane and go and live with your spouse. We have lived together for ten years, so what would I say nothing, what would I do, get on a plane and move to China with my wife. :p. I getter done, I don't complain but others not doing their job right, I will do that for them too.

That being said if I was a pr in Canada. I would have worked 12 hours days like a redneck albertan on the rigs, so when my wife got here she would have a nice place to live. Chinese live this way in their own country and see each other only on holidays, the wife in Beijing and the husband in Shanghai, sucks but it gets them ahead. Guess that's why China and Alberta are doing so well.
the last part about working is funny as i can surely relate to that,i am my own boss so i know what it mean to work long hours, so your concept is adapt and overcome and not worry.
 

Ttcdfolk

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Interview........
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Passport Req..
08-02-2013
LANDED..........
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Re: Reply: My wife(sponsor) wants divorce me a month after I landed

co16062012 said:
the last part about working is funny as i can surely relate to that,i am my own boss so i know what it mean to work long hours, so your concept is adapt and overcome and not worry.
That's Right! And thats why I love your quote at the bottom of your name it is so true. But nothing in that talks about complaining.
 

co16062012

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Re: Reply: My wife(sponsor) wants divorce me a month after I landed

Ttcdfolk said:
That's Right! And that why I love your quote at the bottom of your name it is so true. But nothing in that talks about complaining.
i use to complain,but i stop now makes no sense at the moment, thanks about the quote.