- Feb 15, 2013
- 23
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- Vegreville
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- 16-08-2012
- AOR Received.
- 20-11-2012
- Med's Request
- 11-02-2013
- Med's Done....
- 25-02-2013 DM....:20-06-2013 IN CANADA SINCE:...2008
- LANDED..........
- 21-08-2013
Hi everyone, So if anyone has every read my other post recently I am in the middle of a Sponsorship application with My canadian Husband. We have been together since 2010 but just got married in 2012. And he applied inland at the Vegreville office to sponsor me just a month after getting married.
We love each other so much and the relationship is well known to all our family and friends even my family who is still in my home country.
However, in the beginning of 2011 my sister in law and brother in law, (I guess they were not then yet but son enough) started showing sign that they hate me. It started by her sending my hubby an email saying that he should be careful with me, blah blah blah, even me getting a better cellphone than my hubby ( I was due for an upgrade) was a big deal to them suddenly. His parents gave as their old vehicle so I can use it cause my work was far from the location of our new house. And they were jealous about that too. In the beginning my husband was trying to defend her sister because of course they are family. But eventually everything changed when they started to give us offensive emails, with threats and bad words such as they would get me deported etc. At this time I was working full time as a supervisor, which would eventually entitle me to apply for my own PR, But you know life it give you more challenges, my hubby lost his job and there was a point we used up our saving and we had to ask help from his parents. At this time his sister and brother in law, started attacking us again especially me saying that I was using their parents for money etc. But in reality I give all the penny I make into the relationship to make ends meet. But I guess they do not understand that and just see that we ask money. btw we OWED this money to his parents and it was not given FREE. Eventually life got better and my hubby got a job but in a different city. and we tried living separately for quite a bit and he was only home during the weekends, whichc sucks eventually we decided to move there BUT the catch was i would have to give up my skilled worker job to move with him. He knew that I was sacrificing a lot so he finally decided to propose to me and asked me to marry him. so even though I lost the skilled worker job He can still sponsor me. Which showed me how much he cared about me. So anyways on top of all this he and his sister never talks anymore and still has conflict, there was a time that I actually met up with her sister before Christmas, just for the holiday spirit to maybe fix some stuff up. I thought it was gonna be better from then But when my brother-in-law contacts us, he always just to flips us and say threats to us. So my hubby finally said he will not deal with that anymore and will never talk to my sister in law until he gets rid of the guy, (which might not be happening soon she got pregnant) anyways his last threat made me really upset he said this is war and he will tell the immigration officers that our marriage was fake and that I gave him money to marry me and sponsor me. My hubby has been approved to sponsor and I am getting my medicals done next week, so the application is far from over.
Do you think my brother-in-law can actually do that? and what will immigration do about it?
I know I have people I have that can testify for us and our relationship is true and he will be lying, but it just makes me upset that my application might be delayed because of this monster of a person. What do I do?
We love each other so much and the relationship is well known to all our family and friends even my family who is still in my home country.
However, in the beginning of 2011 my sister in law and brother in law, (I guess they were not then yet but son enough) started showing sign that they hate me. It started by her sending my hubby an email saying that he should be careful with me, blah blah blah, even me getting a better cellphone than my hubby ( I was due for an upgrade) was a big deal to them suddenly. His parents gave as their old vehicle so I can use it cause my work was far from the location of our new house. And they were jealous about that too. In the beginning my husband was trying to defend her sister because of course they are family. But eventually everything changed when they started to give us offensive emails, with threats and bad words such as they would get me deported etc. At this time I was working full time as a supervisor, which would eventually entitle me to apply for my own PR, But you know life it give you more challenges, my hubby lost his job and there was a point we used up our saving and we had to ask help from his parents. At this time his sister and brother in law, started attacking us again especially me saying that I was using their parents for money etc. But in reality I give all the penny I make into the relationship to make ends meet. But I guess they do not understand that and just see that we ask money. btw we OWED this money to his parents and it was not given FREE. Eventually life got better and my hubby got a job but in a different city. and we tried living separately for quite a bit and he was only home during the weekends, whichc sucks eventually we decided to move there BUT the catch was i would have to give up my skilled worker job to move with him. He knew that I was sacrificing a lot so he finally decided to propose to me and asked me to marry him. so even though I lost the skilled worker job He can still sponsor me. Which showed me how much he cared about me. So anyways on top of all this he and his sister never talks anymore and still has conflict, there was a time that I actually met up with her sister before Christmas, just for the holiday spirit to maybe fix some stuff up. I thought it was gonna be better from then But when my brother-in-law contacts us, he always just to flips us and say threats to us. So my hubby finally said he will not deal with that anymore and will never talk to my sister in law until he gets rid of the guy, (which might not be happening soon she got pregnant) anyways his last threat made me really upset he said this is war and he will tell the immigration officers that our marriage was fake and that I gave him money to marry me and sponsor me. My hubby has been approved to sponsor and I am getting my medicals done next week, so the application is far from over.
Do you think my brother-in-law can actually do that? and what will immigration do about it?
I know I have people I have that can testify for us and our relationship is true and he will be lying, but it just makes me upset that my application might be delayed because of this monster of a person. What do I do?
