Darkzide121 said:
will do, thank you for your response, I did send a day of chat log for each year, and send note saying that we have more, cause it would been about 1 inch thick print out.
I don't think one day per year is enough. So, to the e-mail I would attach a lot more since it is can show the development of your relationship (minimum something for each month to show continuity and critical periods of your relationship). In fact, since you have already gone through and collated it and can 'print to pdf' and e-mail it to them, consider sending all of it and they can selectively skim. This is not the time to hold back. Also, send them phone bills, copies of letters, cards, etc.
Similarly, send them as many pictures of you can of you and your wife, especially those with friends or family in them.
Re financials - add a note highlighting some conversations where you discuss financial planning, how you will pay bills, future plans, etc. Also, if you have sent each other money, send copies of the checks or bank statements showing transfers. You want to show that your financial affairs are intertwined. Also, if either of you are beneficiaries of each others' life insurance policies, etc include those.
Also, consider sending letters from friends and family (if you can get them very quickly) in Spanish or English that talk about the development of your relationship. Explain why your wife hasn't moved to the US and any other things that may look weird to someone who doesn't know you at all.
Bottom line: while I think they made a mistake (given that they are treating you like a common law or conjugal couple vs. spouse and that they seem to think you lived in Canada), this shows they probably are also looking for additional proof of relationship that your relationship is genuine. Use the opportunity to clarify the first 2 points to send them information on the other points. Ask them if the interview request was indeed for you or if this was a mistake. Hope that either it was a mistake or the additional evidence convinces them and they withdraw the interview request.