Wow, 1400 pesos is actually pretty good! I think you mentioned your in Mexico City? Anyhow, great for you.
On the CBSA site, this is what they say about deportation order: A person who has been removed as a result of a deportation order is permanently barred from returning to Canada. Such people may never return unless they receive written permission from the CBSA.
I was thinking of the Exclusion order which is lifted after two years.
I think since you are permanently barred from entering Canada, you would need an ARC to return, but since your wife is in Canada, you clearly have the right to apply for one. My advice, wait and see, worse comes to worse, you need the ARC.. At least soon this nightmare will all be over and you can get back home to your wife!
Website: http://www.cbsa-asfc.gc.ca/media/facts-faits/051-eng.html