MrsHBKelly said:
What exactly would they be searching my bags for, just out of curiosity?
Stuff like anxious2015 mentioned… scrapbook-type stuff, a big collection of sentimental things… stuff you can't replace in Canada, or things you can use to "re-establish yourself." This was my officer's reasoning the one time I was refused entry.
MrsHBKelly said:
My husband and I have been long distance for 3 years and I travel to Calgary very frequently from Boston (for a week or two every other month). I guess I'm just nervous because this will be my longest visit yet, and my first visit since submitting our application since my husband came here last visit instead of me going there. In the dozens of times I have flown to Calgary I have never been questioned beyond the 5 seconds of "why are you here?" "when will you leave?" but its always been for short visits. Is saying "I'm here for an extended visit with my husband" an acceptable answer? The complicated answer is that my mother-in-law isn't doing great and I want to spend more time with her and help him with her day to day care. Is it necessary or helpful if I offer that up, or will quality time with the hubs be sufficient?
I'm so nervous, I am sorry for the long posts.
Thanks, everyone!!
If you have established a pattern of compliance, I don't see it being an issue. "Extended visit" isn't the terminology I would use… I never volunteer information to an officer, I only answer what I am asked. The officer will see on your declaration card that you plan to stay for 150+ days and that will be the red flag, not your application, and not your answer of "I'm here to visit my husband." They will probably follow it up with "why so long?" and that I'm not telling you to withhold information, so that would be an appropriate time to tell them about your mother-in-law.
Their next question will probably be "what about work?" With everything I know about your situation, I think the officer's primary concern won't be over-staying, but working illegally. Make SURE you have documentation of your job expecting you back, and documentation of financial support. Something like a bank statement showing you have savings, or a note from your husband stating he will be financially supporting you. If he is picking you up at the airport, then that's less necessary, if they have concerns they can actually interview him if he's on the premises.