cgagnon said:
So many different things are being said I just want this over with I'm tired of having a husband who can't work who is stressing the heck out of me decided to go back to the states because he couldnt handle it here because he needs to breath! Everything is left on my shoulders!!!! I`ve had enough of the government deciding my faith!! Enough is enough!!!!!!Money doesn't go on trees 1040$ is enough for me to go on vacation!!!!!!!!!! Sorry guys horrible 2 Weeks!
Oh I so relate cgagnon, this is not easy for any of us, with our spouses or not, its stressfull as hell and certainly puts alot of strain on our relationships, we have had some serious up and downs recently too, hard to maintain a relationship when you havent seen the person in 10 months. But what i have come to realize is that there will always be these ups and downs, so if your hubby is frusturated its understandable, but it will pass. You guys are through the 1st stage now and good things are going to come, keep your eye on your prize ! Maybe come up with something that he can do so that he doesnt feel so useless, like volunteering or working online, something that would keep him occupied in the meantime or perhaps a trip home (if possible) so that he can refocus. Dont be sorry for feeling the way you do, this has got to be one of the most frusturating processes to go through, just dont let it consume you. Stay strong !
