canimmigrant
Hero Member
- Jan 19, 2011
- 6
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- Manila, PHILIPPINES
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- 25-02-2010
- Med's Request
- 25-08-2010
- Med's Done....
- 16-09-2010
- Passport Req..
- 14-11-2010
correct! positive lang tayo... though i agree, they should not prohibit us from asking about the status of our passports...mimi0713 said:ganun na lng tlga, paradigm-shifting at ng di tayo maloka from a pessimist's point of view---the glass is half-empty, to the optimist---its half full...........
i just like to share a very insightful talk i had with my already canadian sister-in-law... i told her about our blog... how we all are at our wit's end wanting to bombard the VO with our inquiries... she understands why we are doing this but explained to me that this is how people in canada are... isang sabi lang daw, kung ano ang sinabi sa iyo, iyun ang gagawin nila...
sya mismo ang tagal daw nya nasanay sa ganon... like she told me when they paid in full for their car as they were going back home after getting their citizenship, ang sabi lang daw just leave your check with us and you will receive your documents through mail... yung kasama nya na cousin nila na nagbabakasyon, kinulit daw sya ng kinulit na pwede ba yon na ni wala man lang acknowledgement of receipt of payment etc. etc.... sabi daw nya, eh kasi yun ang sinabi, na iwan lang ang check and they will just mail everything back as soon as they can manage it... kasi matagal na daw sya non doon at nasanay na sya na talagang ganon ang mga canadians... minimal answers baga... true enough, after a week, the car company mailed the release of mortgage, receipt etc. etc. to her...
what i'm saying is, without trying to sound condescending, ganon ang culture nila... they tell you once and hope you trust that... now, dito sa atin, nasa culture din natin na mag confirm... sa mga hindi pa nakakapanood kay vice ganda, ito actually ang isa sa mga main topic ng jokes nya... ie, vice: "miss, pahingi ngang medium size nitong t-shirt" vendor: "para sa inyo po?" vice:"hindi, para sa IYO kasi kahit di kita kilala, gusto kita ibili ng t-shirt!" LOL
this is of course mega OA... but in a nutshell, that is the truth actually... nagtanong tayo, sinagot tayo, tapos tatanong na naman tayo... mukhang di nila ugali to get into details... unless nga makulitan na lang sa atin at maging mean na sila... na experience ko kasi din ito sa CNO... kinulit ko ng kinulit ang CNO bakit yung pinadala na RPN assessment form sa akin ay through regular mail, samantalang ang iba eh through email lang... after two inquiries, sinagot ako na hindi through email pinadala yung forms ko because i already have an existing RN assessment application (which they sent to me through email) dun lang ako tumigil... sa isip isip ko, hindi pa kasi dinetalye sa akin nung una pa lang... after talking to my sis-in-law, dun ko na realize that it is because that is probably not how they are lang talaga... they trust their system and they expect everyone else to trust it as well...
kasi tayong mga pinoy, iba tayo... masyado tayong sanay na wala tayong tiwala sa systema ng government at mga offices natin here... we are used to always looking out for ourselves... na tipong pag di tayo kumilos on our own, walang mangyayari sa mga nilalakad natin kung aasa lang tayo sa mga protocols in place... it is not uncommon for us to hear of stories about important correspondence from the VO not getting to us because of the crappy postal service we have... ang mali ng VO is they gave us this 90-day timeline... pero kung babasahin naman nga natin, nakalagay lang doon that they will do their best lang... with the matching warning nga TO NOT MAKE PLANS of moving to canada until we are in possession of our visas...
ako kasi tapos na sa galit, nasa rationalization stage na ako... at sayang nga ang energy... dagdag pa sa wrinkles ko na inaapura ko nga ng pigil ng hindi ko na kailanganin si botox MUNA ;D... so i'm just sharing my thoughts, hoping this would ease some of our pagka bagot and agony in waiting... it is something to think about... pag dating natin doon, we need to adapt to their culture and get used to these types of replies... kaya easy lang tayo... wala sanang abutan na paulitin pa mag medical dahil lang sa bagal nila mag process... sabi nga sa isang thread, this will not only be unfair but unprofessional as well on the VO's part...
so let's bombard the heavens instead with our prayers... walang hindi nakukuha sa dasal... promise! ;D
goodnight everyone! goodluck to all of us ;D