Hi Chelseaviel,
I saw one of your posts on this last night. I know you've been waiting for so long. I don't know anything about your case, but all that matters right now is that CEM doesn't yet see your relationship as genuine. But they're giving you a chance to prove them wrong. It's your turn to think about what you sent in the original application and figure out why they think this. You need to see if there are any red flags that you can address. I'm going to list some red flags that may or may not pertain to you. If any of these apply to you, you have to address the issues with written explanation and proof.
Possible red flags:
-An age gap between you and your husband (explain why this works. Mature for your age?)
-You're young and your husband is old, he doesn't want any more kids and you've agreed. (I saw this one on CanLii, they had to appeal because the VO wondered what Filipina in her right mind would give up having kids)
-Your husband is a foreigner that you met online (explain why you would be looking for a foreigner specifically)
-Not having much contact in person (one visit a year, only saw each other for small periods of time - explain why and back it up with mountains of phone bills and chat logs)
-Quick marriage after meeting in person for the first time (why such a hurry? explain the development of the relationship and back it up with chat logs and phone bills)
-Any previous relationships not addressed very clearly? Were either of you married to someone else before? Make sure it's clear.
-Did you attempt to live in Canada or the US before? If you had a previous attempt to go abroad and it didn't work out, they might think you are opportunistic and only want to come to Canada. For example, did you marry another foreigner before, or did you previously try and settle somewhere on a visa that didn't work out.
Those are just some ideas of things they may be examining - I don't know you or your case, so only you can know what they may be thinking.
This is your time to give them everything you've got. Send in all possible relationship proof. Did you get letters from family and friends? Photos, plane tickets, phone logs, skype logs, facebook chats, money transfers, proof of interactions with each other's friends and family, every scrap of paper, every teddy bear he sent you. Probably a photo of the bear would be best
Good luck! We will all be patiently waiting for the positive outcome :-*