My wife is a Filipina. My true problem is... that she originally applied to work for me as a caregiver, while I was looking for a caregiver (my 3rd one) and she was working in Hong Kong. We discussed a few things over skype.. one thing led to another... we fell in love...
So guess what, she abandoned her caregiver application, she quit her well paying job, so that she could go home, I could visit there, meet the family, we could get married and do it the proper way... Now they look at her as an opportunist. Our file is being "reviewed" by some fart in some cushy office who is putting us through the "stress test" - making us wait and wait, to see if something will give in the relationship. I curse the day when I agreed to this "long road"... her caregiver application was a few weeks from being approved... we should have kept our mouth shut and we could have been together for the last 2 years.... But my sweetheart was worried that I will use her and never marry her OMG she wanted to see if I really mean it...