I go back a lot, I generally go every 6 weeks. Spent lots of savings doing it, and I am sure if it was just my wife and I the trips would be spaced out much more. But I have now a 2yr old and a 1yr old. That's the hard part. Skype doesn't have the ability to let you hold your kids and bond with them. I've been now 16 times since my first daughter was born, and heading out again tonight. We have moved the return tickets for all until next Friday the 28th. We had the DM on Monday this week, and they requested more passport pics of my wife which was delivered on Tuesday at the Embassy. I am really hoping to have the visa's in hand by Friday. Really wish they would send you a message saying they are sent and the tracking number. Has anyone else been asked for the passport pics that could tell me how long they waited before the visa's arrived? I am not coming back without them this time, even if I have to move the return flights again, I can't do it anymore....no more goodbye's at the airport.