I'm sorry if I reacted the way i did. I don't really post hate replies like that but I was just pissed off when marcjd said that "I'm having a free pass to a brighter future thanks to my sponsor". It is as if he knows me very very well. Do i need to list down all of my life accomplishments and the things I can afford to deserve his respect?what he said was kinda below the belt. is that what he thinks of his wife and all the spouses being sponsored- "getting a free pass to a brighter future"? I read the post again and again but i didn't find anything offensive with what i said. when i said i thought i was middle class when i'm not were all true (based on his definition). I was laughing at my self (not at anyone) and taking a lighter note about it. then he came up with all these insults. Marcjd, according to his story, had a better life (financially speaking) yay to him and his parents. i didn't say anything against that. there were other replies to his post but he specifically picked mine to have a reason to lash out.
@marcjd I was not asking you to respect me because I am a woman. Like they say, "RESPECT IS AN EXPENSIVE COMMODITY YOU CAN'T EXPECT IT FROM CHEAP PEOPLE." all i wanted to know was why did you chose me to pick a fight with, when my replies were not personally directed to you? because I am a woman?or because you think that I am an easier target because I am a Filipino, "living in the Philippines"? that is the only question I am asking you. you don't need to beat around the bush asking everyone's sympathy and rationalizing why you said the things you said.
dude, seriously, choose your words and think about it before you post. I am not the first person/woman you insulted in this forum.
I know marcjd can't answer my questions. he is too "up there" to say the reason why.
Let's all just get over it and continue praying to have our visas so we can be with our other half the soonest time possible.