oh its same in our case her girls cry hard if she ever try to come Pakistan before they hide her passport, and once before they cancel her tickets , as we let them know last minute but they threat her if you go they will go away, because they really love her and not want to loose her, our youngest girl cry hard and she could be effected psychologically when she come to know by other kids mom will never come back ... we wait finally until she go on trip for one week then my wife visited me these were the circumstances when we meet.. imagine how hard we come through i hope they review their decision i would love to have my wife if Pakistan had peace... our country is recovering this is good thing but it will take some more time for full recovery i pray inshallah ul aziz sooner peace will come in our country then we can live in Pakistan too.