as i said, i've tried to get a visit visa,and it was fail .. that's why i'm looking for some other ways to visit him, BEFORE marrying him ..Baloo said:"he's too busy with his job" - that would worry me, surely he should want to visit you if you can't get a visa for Canada.
"so this may be the last thing to do,or if you know some other way to visit Canada,tell me" - sorry, but what you appear to be saying is that you will get married to come to Canada.